Questions need to ask before gettin married to someone.

Getting married is one the important in one’s Life.Being a Muslim , One has to get married oneday.Abb roz roz to insan shadee nahee kar sakta naa..May be most of the time..we knew the person whom we r geting married BUT not his view..but I think a person’s views are much much more important thn the person him/herself physically..so here’s couple of question..so if someone asked u ..how do u manage those questions ..u know wht u know and wht u r ..But again u have reply the person in a positive way..thts al wht ppl used to do ..but again the same thing ..its easy to say thn get it DONE…so here’s a coupe of questions someone asked once…have a go through ..adn give ur comments ..

What are your religious views?

Do you believe in a God?

What are your views about an afterlife?

How should we agree to handle arguments?

If you’re mad about something how will you let me know?

If you’re having problems would you talk it out or keep it inside?

Do you like sharing your feelings?

What are your views about same sex friends?

How do you feel about ex-lovers being friends?

How important is a girl’s or guy’s night out?

Who should hold the main financial responsibility in a marriage?

Should a wife stay home with kids?

What are your views about stay-at-home dads?

How would you feel about women who make more money than men?

What are your views towards handling money?

Do you feel you should save everything?

Do you feel you should splurge a little?

How would you rate your ability to handle money?

How would you handle a debt problem?

What would you do if your partner became disabled and couldn’t work?

What would you do if your partner face long-term unemployment?

What would you expect from that partner?

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well I see several questions that are totally out of the question because its just rude to ask such things. And some that are just not needed :D (just my opinion)

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Do you want to get married or hire a spouse?

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http://www.adamscenter.org/Documents/Documents/3/premaritalques.doc

hope u find this useful

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twin born i like your questions!i think they are very insightful. if one really had a to figure out a person and dint really have very much time to do that in, i think these questions def. can give u a really god idea about the person

good call!

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Actually these questions are from the ladies perspective ..more weightage given to ladies right ...so they should claerly asked..as they do have more problems after marriage thn a man ...as specially for working ladies...

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What are your religious views? - SUNNI MUSLIM!

Do you believe in a God? - ABSOLUTELY

What are your views about an afterlife? - HOPEFULLY GO TO HEAVEN

How should we agree to handle arguments? - TALK

If you're mad about something how will you let me know? - PUNCH YOU? :p tell you calmly

If you're having problems would you talk it out or keep it inside? - keep it inside for a while

Do you like sharing your feelings? - NO

What are your views about same sex friends? - OK.

How do you feel about ex-lovers being friends? - ARE YOU F'IN OUT OF YOUR MIND??

How important is a girl's or guy's night out? - WHATS THAT?

Who should hold the main financial responsibility in a marriage? - SHE CAN IF SHE WANTS

Should a wife stay home with kids? - YESSSSSSSSSSS

What are your views about stay-at-home dads? WHAT???????? OH PLEASE!

How would you feel about women who make more money than men? DON'T MAKE ME LAUGH.

What are your views towards handling money? - SAVE MORE THAN SPEND

Do you feel you should save everything? - OK!

Do you feel you should splurge a little? AS LONG AS IT IS ON A BMW.

How would you rate your ability to handle money? - AVERAGE

How would you handle a debt problem? - PAY IT OFF ASAP! DEBT IS BAD.

What would you do if your partner became disabled and couldn't work? - I WOULD STILL LOVE HER AND ALWAYS TAKE CARE OF HER.

What would you do if your partner face long-term unemployment? - SHE WOULD A STAY-AT-HOME MOM.

What would you expect from that partner? SEX! LOTS OF IT.

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I see fallen has already filled insaid form and is now awaiting from [EMAIL="[email protected]"][email protected] - at least he hasnt given up hope. keep the faith brother.

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A few months ago I went through a bunch of those questions with a potential rishta...it was useful in a way and we agreed on a lot of things, but felt too contrived and unnatural. Didn't work out in the end. It also made me realise that I'm not looking for a complete Mullah.

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agreed.....filling out a form is most def unnatural....but its always a good idea to keep those questions in mind so that it can be brought up at the right moment.

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:eek: so many questions :hayaa:

ItnaY tau college, school maiN bhee naheeN diYe thaY :bummer:

ahhhh… virtues of single life :love:

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wow, u really put a lot of thought into this questionaire.

I think some of these are just absurd and wacky. And, how would you know the person answering your questions is giving honest answers, he/she could be putting up a front and later turn out to be total opposite of what you thought of him/her. You know what i am saying?

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whats the guarantee that other person will not change his/her ideas about life and answers to these question won't be nullified as life goes on?!?!

I dun think all these questions make any difference, marriage is all about love, trust, and compromise on certain things.. if you are willing to do that you wil have a happy marriage!

To have a practical islamic guide to a happy marriage buy Blissful marriage by Ekram Beshir, Mohamed Rida Beshir for yourself and your partner.

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good point....

besides its not like our parents did all this....and they (overall) seem to have done just fine.

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Thats a lot of questions. Some of the them people may not have even considered before or may not even know their positions on them.

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the only Q he asked was if illl marry him.
guess what my answer was :emmy::naraz:

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:k:
shortcut all the way:sara: .

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i wish he would not ask any questions :blush:

:smiley:

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What are your views about an afterlife? - not too sure about this one…but every molvi i ever talked to, told me i’m screwed.:smilestar: ---------------->:konfused: