Do you think its ok if a guy is talking to more than one girl at a time for rishta? He believes if things dont work out with one then he will have more “options” to choose from as there is no commitment at all with anyone. Guy is single & looking, obviously he will have a look at all the rishtas but giving them hope & talking to them with all seriousness can cause trouble for the girl & I dont think any girl would like to be treated as an “option”.
What you guys think?
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Women do it all the time too lol. It’s not a big deal.
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That would depend on how clear the situation is. People who seek a match on matrimonial sites talk to multiple people at a time until they find, in Pisiform’s term, ‘the one’. There has to be a timeline where both parties know about being exclusive. If its not exclusive after a couple of weeks and you continue to talk to multiple people, that’s creepy. If you are giving impression of being exclusive to one or both, that’s lying or cheating.
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Given that it is going to be a regular rishta process, it would depend where things stand between the two families. If no one from the guy’s family has ever spoken to anyone from the girl’s family, then the talking needs to be minimal and confined to exchange of basic relevant information about past, present and future. At this stage both the guy and the girl should see themselves as merely an option to each other while keeping hopes in check.
The male and female psychology works opposite to one another while they are talking at length to multiple prospective spouses at a time. This is my personal observation among my friends. The guy’s confidence and self-esteem goes through the roof which makes him appear more attractive but the girl’s confidence and self-esteem hits rock bottom which makes her appear less attractive. Girls sometimes get seriously ill due to all the stress of being in such a situation where they have to talk at length to multiple prospective spouses.
Obviously if ice has broken between the two families, then some more talking makes sense while still keeping hopes in check because it’s not over until it’s over.
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Go and find yourself a good fella, don’t get this rishta thing.
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why tissues jee why you opened a thread about us? What hoeng if i’m talking to you as well @Red velvet on the side, it doesnt mean you ask around GSers opinion :\
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Good grief, Hole-ey Lotay! Yeh kya har waqt khusron ki tarha …“hoeing”…“sharmaeing”…“dikhaeng”…laga rakha hai?
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Its no big deal. Its just a rishta process which means there is no baat pakki, engagement, nikkah or valima. The girl should take things just as lightly as the guy. Meaning, don’t think of yourself as an option when he is also just an option.