Here’s a question - how do you deal … when it seems like other around you get exactly what they want in life (comprising of all the basics - work, money, marriage) and you (personally) can never get a 100% of what you want … how do make yourself happy …
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first of all you become happy with what you have, secondly try to work hard for what you want and instead of looking at what people have, look inside at what you have and how many people in the world would die to have what you have.
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be happy with what you have
stop comparing yourself with others
you are a great individual, and if you have some shortcomings,
work hard to become a better human being
somtimes we believe we want things, we don't really want
who are you ?
what do you really like?
and then you will know what you REALLY want, and this may be diiferent from what your friends and family would like you to do
for example i used to envy those who could date guys, and any friends were trying to tell me that i should date guys more often. But i know it's not what I want, so i stop envying dating girls
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Good point guys - I guess, one part of maturing is learning to be content and even better at peace with yourself - your abilities, possessions etc. One way maybe to work on your insecurities ...
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how do i make myself happy? by counting what I have and others don't
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by being happy with what you have.
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^.. that's what I said
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If I am not getting 100%, I'll look at the people who are getting even less % than me and i'll thank God for whatever % I am getting ..... !
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^ Exactly, be happy with what you have, also at the same time do not be discouraged. If you have a dream and motivation to be better financially or otherwise, go for it. Do not let certain obstacles or time let you down, if you keep at it, sooner or later it will happen.
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nazrein uttha ke nahi jhuka ker chalna chahiye
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I just think about the people who are worse off than me and it makes me feel sorry for them but can make me feel better about myself and more grateful to Allah.
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thats the key :k:
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i alwayz look at the GOOD points of my life in the end
altho i alwayz think that its unfair....i guess i gta get rid of that habit
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give to charity. it makes you feel rich.
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never compare yourself with others. you may be one of them , but you are the only one.
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I am currently compromised between my creativity/sucess and my happiness, I am currently too happy to give a fudge about shoving my sucess down the throat of anyone who dares challenge my authority. I want my teenage angst back - it mayve made me unhappy, but I was sure good at it.
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As someone said happiness is not only in reaching the destination, but in enjoying the jouney as well.
Well! I messed it up!
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firefly consider urself lucky to get this great inspring respond which now days a freind dont even give. Set a goal which is easy to achieve then move ahead and keep going till u reach for ur dreams, no mater it takes weeks, months or years... but u will get there,,,, there is nothing impossible :)