or if you remember that special time before you got married, you’re welcome to contribute here as well.
So umm, what exactly happens to you girls? As soon as you’re a fiance, does your crazy switch turn on? My best friend is getting married soon Inshallah…but man…she’s like crazy right now! And she knows she’s being crazy, but it’s like she can’t help the craziness. And then one look at Life3/Wedding Forum just makes me think that’s like an unwritten law of the universe. That the girls that are going to get married turn crazy before they sign that nikkahnama. All that name calling and being (w)itches is just eye opening man. I feel sorry for their male counterparts :no: Because I’m sure woh bhi peess rahay hon gae along with the others around the to-be-brides.
I honestly don’t remember what i was like before my wedding? Personally i remember being very frustrated and angry half the time (cz of arrangements or lack thereof etc) b/c I wasn’t even allowed any control over anything… I do remember the fights wiht my mom cz she was even more nervous than me I pulled away from a few friends cz thats what they wanted to talk about, and I hated not being able to give clear answers, not to mention they wanted to talk about him but i didnt want to blablabla.
I don’t think i put out much of my frustrations on here though… was the wedding forum even there at the time? I dont’ remember…
And any way, if ur referring to what I think u are.. everybody has their crazy moments and stressful moments but are completely nice and normal… then there are those who are just incredibly nasty no matter hwat…:halo:
*Aik mera Qureshi naam ka dost tha, usnay muje pataya kay jab uski shaadi ki gayi, to usually long andar say kundee lagatay haiN, magar wo banda kamray ki baahir say kundee laga kar bhaag gya.
So the moral of the story is that jitna confidence larkioN mai haiN, utna laRkoN mai naheeN.
There is a E-Book available on net which is called Saas.Ko.Peetnay.Kay.101.Tareeqay.pdf , it is out on mininova and piratebay, I advise all girls to download that PDF that and study it. Anay wali zindagi mai khushguwaar saabit ho gi.
Jaan Leva, Khumar ka craziness level yaha say andaza laga lo kay agar wo building ki 30th floor par ho gi, to girte girte ground floor tak aa jaye gi : -)
I pulled away from a few friends cz thats what they wanted to talk about, and I hated not being able to give clear answers, not to mention they wanted to talk about him but i didnt want to blablabla.
@ ASN