Question to Men about ego/rishta process...

[NomiCA]

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sperm bank anyone

marry the guy…but get impregnated with a perfect sperm donation…masla khatam…

[Nisha25]

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wooah, again guys/gals, this is not about me and this is not something i personally am dealing with, and i already said this is between the time of full on love to just having feelings, this issue doesn't relate to me.

but i saw a similar type of situation happen to somebody i know and i know for a fact that it was a tough decision and that person is still in that process of deciding.

strabismus, is genetic and so is vitiligo as well as albino-ism

[Nisha25]

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@Murgi

Being cross-eyes isn’t genetic. There are many cures for a child born with a lazy eye or whatever. Simple from closing one eye to surgical intervention.

First things first. You’re in love. You accept the person. You accept the family. If you can do it for a friend, you can very well do it for someone you love.

Second, to be all practical, that is a risk. Life has a risk to it inherently. Even perfectly tall people with no history, can produce a midget child. It happens.

Now, in all seriousness, if you think that is going to happen, then you can go the route of genetically enginereed babies. Many couples, who know that a serious genetic disorder, more serious than albinoism () exists in their families, and they go for genetic counselling. If they decide to have a child, they produce many embryos and out of them, viable ones are implanted. If a couple is deadly serious about being together, they will do whatever is in their power to make it happen.

but that goes back to the topic of the thread, would the guy’s family be offended or insulted that genetic counseling was even suggested or that the girl’s family even suggested such a thing and had an issue with all this. these are desis we’re talking about here. them getting insulted is higher

i know for a fact that if i had such disorders in my family i would be prepared to have people raise issues about it.

[Khumar]

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but that goes back to the topic of the thread, would the guy's family be offended or insulted that genetic counseling was even suggested or that the girl's family even suggested such a thing and had an issue with all this. these are desis we're talking about here. them getting insulted is higher

i know for a fact that if i had such disorders in my family i would be prepared to have people raise issues about it.

Well, if we are talking about desi families, then going in to a love marriage is going to raise the eyebrows anyways. So...if you're scandalizing shuro main hi, why not finish what you started ya know.

[S02]

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i can see what sahar is saying but i already mentioned that this is not an arranged marriage situation, they do have feelings for each other and the process has progressed quite a bit, the moving on wouldn't be so easy since the professing of their feelings has already happened.

So then pursue the rishta. They can't do anything about the genes. Take it or leave it. No need to talk about it.

[Spock]

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[Nisha25]

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@Spock

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pjy_SCGsc1I&feature=related

:smack: :rolleyes:…seriously?

[redvelvet]

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@Sahar02

So then pursue the rishta. They can't do anything about the genes. Take it or leave it. No need to talk about it.

^That