What are your views regarding the concept of loving a woman after you have got married? What I precisely want to know that the intensity with which one misses the other* runs high prior to wedding. Does that remain as such or dies down slowly?
You were not very clear my friend. Maybe elaborate a little?
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*Originally posted by ahmadjee: *
You were not very clear my friend. Maybe elaborate a little?
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Once you have the taste of it, does the attraction stays same. intensifies or diminishes?
Seedha saadha…tu sanu confuse karnay peya. 
intensifies...
at the risk of sounding very cliched..
love really doesnt happen until after shaadi when you realize and accept the other's flaws.
everyone has flaws.. i am sure when i get married (May Allah bless the person who gets marrid to me) my wife will make some compromises and so will i .. but isn't that the whole fun part of marriage?
o well.. phelay shaadi tou ho.. phir we worry about problems :)
Seedha, its very natural to miss someone when they are not there. After marriage they are with you all the time. If you wanna miss them, send 'em away for a little while (and watch the channels of your own choice for a change).
next? 
You are the one who has recently been married, right?
Well, u can wait. 
Next what?
you do understand that there isnt a stencil for your relationship.
each one is different..
Thanks, I got it 
oh god..youshould just stick to the cafe..
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*Originally posted by ~MuNiYa~: *
oh god..youshould just stick to the cafe..
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Wahan bhee naheen bakhshteen.........
jab se hoor dekhee hai, tum jal jal ke koyla ho gayee ho :p
I have been married to my lovely husband for almost 6 yrs now and I am getting ready to take our 3 boys (without Daddy) to see my mother and father for 5 days. Its breaking my heart to be away! I know my boys will have SO much fun and I will also enjoy seeing my parents but there will be SUCH an underlying sadness that my husband isnt there...
My love has grown and grown. He is the sunshine in my world
^^ exactly :)
Hey, i’m in that position right now - i’ve been married for a year since last Aug 03 in pak. Lived with hubby for 2 weeks and came back to U.K - i went back to UNI/College to complete my I.T. degree. So now, lookin for a job so i can sort out his visa papers.
And yeah, i do MISS him alot - but at same time: i’m making my own choices of what to do - although i carry a huge HUGE responsibility to call him over ASAP.
Ive been down that lane rizroseq2002, so I know how u r feeling right now, 
I hope that the 2 of u meet up quick and start your new lives 2gether soon.AMEEN
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*Originally posted by Mamaof3: *
I have been married to my lovely husband for almost 6 yrs now and I am getting ready to take our 3 boys (without Daddy) to see my mother and father for 5 days. Its breaking my heart to be away! I know my boys will have SO much fun and I will also enjoy seeing my parents but there will be SUCH an underlying sadness that my husband isnt there...
My love has grown and grown. He is the sunshine in my world
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So sweet.
I also have that i have to go to my sis in laws house coz there
was something and i have to sleep over there.
And my husband was at home coz his job.
Well i couldnt sleep i really missed him and i want go back
home. I really missed him a lot lolz.