How many of you would move back to Pakistan for the sake of your better half? Should any of you have applied and their visas refused, would you move back for them?
Please do not assume the worst about me or anyone in particular…This is just a hypothetical question…
I would definitely consider moving to Pakistan. But I don't know if I would consider it a permanent decision immediately. I would try it out for a few years.
My friend's contemplating that. She knows that her fiance won't like it here. No custom made shirts or suits, no halla gulla, or her friends. She thinks that she would move back, but for a few years, but will try to persuade him to move here eventually. If not then somewhere completely else.
well if there is no other way to get him to come here legally and I am married to him...then of course I would. I wouldnt want to live away from him...wouldnt be much of a marriage if i did. However I would hope that it would be a temporary situation and if it's not then I would rather live in another country.....i just cant imagine having to live in pak for 2 long.
My friend's contemplating that. She knows that her fiance won't like it here. No custom made shirts or suits, no halla gulla, or her friends. She thinks that she would move back, but for a few years, but will try to persuade him to move here eventually. If not then somewhere completely else.
I can give her some numbers for great places that make made to measure shirts and suits. also tailors from savile row come to US several times each year to fit their clients. If he wants to do it on the cheap hong kong tailors do the same, and their quality is way way better than Pakistani tailors, even the fabled musa ji types.
lajawab I did the opposite, I stayed in US due to my wife for the most part otherwise i had intended to go back to London. I would say her family being here and her prference for US was 75% of the decsion.
I can give her some numbers for great places that make made to measure shirts and suits. also tailors from savile row come to US several times each year to fit their clients. If he wants to do it on the cheap hong kong tailors do the same, and their quality is way way better than Pakistani tailors, even the fabled musa ji types.
THE HALF BETTER BE A GREAT EFFIN' HALF. tHE HALF WHICH WANTS ME TO SACRIFICE MY LIFE AS I KNOW IT BETTER BE FIT, INTELLIGENT, RICH AND ETC. IF THE HALF IS SUBSTANDARD IN ANY WAY (INCLUDES BEING THE OWNER OF BULL*ISH OPINIONS) THEN THAT HALF BETTER THINK A MILLION TIMES BEFORE ASKING. IM PREPARED TO COMPROMISE, BUT IN THE EVENTUALITY OF AN ARRANGED MARRIAGE, THE HALF BETTER STEP UP BEFORE BEING A TEXTBOOK ASS.
IF THEIR VISA WAS REFUSED, I WOULD ASK THEM WHAT MAKES A PERSON STUPID ENOUGH TO NOT PASS TESTS. WHY NOT 100%???? ITS THEIR OWN FAULT FOR BEING A NALAIK.
^hitchki you are too loud:bummer:
Even though i don’t like to live in pakistan and its hard for me but if my better half wants me to move their with some very geuine reasons then i’ll move.Well my better half knows me well so my hubby will not move .
We are actually planning to do this for a loooong time....I'd move in a eyeblick....but well....
I still pray, one day we are able to move back...InshaAllah
for a little while for my husband's family, and it went really badly. It's not something I would do again, and I would discourage my children from being in a similar situation. You are Pakistani though, so I think it may be easier. How much family do you have left in Pakistan? And why was the fiancee refused a visa? I would be really concerned about that.