As Maham said…Why are inlaws treated differently?
Re: Question to all married people.
because they r in laws
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Because kids have to live with their parents while a daughter-in-law and her husband dont have the neccesity. because unlike kids; they can move out.
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Kids move out too
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But its harder for them.
As Maham said....Why are inlaws treated differently?
*keep their rooms. My bad.
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I dnt know. Maybe because no one can compare to your own parents. and to be honest, no one does as much as ur own do. however if my MIL did tell me to say wake up on time, i probly would be annoyed because hey im a girl, i get told what to do all my life by my mum dad, then my husband, and i dnt want another set of people telling me how to live my life....its too many people wiht too many expectations thats all....just sod off and let me live.....( in laws not parents ) EVEN hubby....sod off man, im a grown woman, with a personality and mind of my own i dnt need someone to tell me how to behave, or what to say or not say....
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This is so tired and rehashed.
It's a two way street. Most in-laws cannot treat their children's partners as they would treat their own children, so how can the wives/husbands treat the in-laws as their parents.
In addition to that, most likely your in-laws will be of a different character to your own parents. For example, of course I will get irritated and bristle if I had to have my in-laws permission for things all the time etc, because my own my parents are nothing like that.
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…because there is this woman who carried me in her stomach for 9 months, gave birth to me, raised me, provided for me and deserves a bit more than someone I just met. I already have a mom and a dad. Alhumdulillah.
Inlaws deserve undying respect, for sure. However, they cannot be compared to your parents. I call my mother “mom”…used to call ex-MIL “ammi” because her son did. That was irritating to her. Why? I never got that. She just came from Pak too…why would she want to be called “mom”? 
There is a difference when things are said out of love and when things are said out of spite or hatred or jealousy.
When I was sick , pregnant & dying in hospital my mom was there because she loved me , she spent all nights praying for my & my child's life because she loved us. My MIL too came to see me but she said " humnay kaha chalo tafreeh ho jaye gi is liye hum hospital aa gaye" her bahu & her unborn grandchild's life was in danger and she was seeking tafreeh .....no ! parent in laws and your own parents can never be the same.
I am sure there are good people in this world and not all parents in law are mean to their bahus , I know my own dadi was very nice & caring towards my mom. So like I said it's the neeyat behind the things said that counts.
As Maham said....Why are inlaws treated differently?
because the daughter in law is the reason ..