Re: question regarding guys in pakistan
As a parent myself, we also pondering the same issue. I may be too much paranoid but here is my take:-
The biggest problem is adjustment issue, the girls brought up outside (no matter how religious or well groomed) they have gone through different type of life experience, due to environment, education, which would to 180% different to a guy borne and raised in typical family in Pakistan. This would certainly create difference and friction between two persons or with his family.
Given the quality of life, and security concern in Pakistan, one could not rule out possibility of future migration for sake of children. To that i have noticed unless a good professional degree coupled with sold professional experience, given the general quality of education the guy must have degree in from a reputable university otherwise he would have problem getting a job oversea.
I have seen a fellow Pakistani, married daughter to a nice gentlemen in Pakistan, and the guy with so called MBA is useless here, and he ended up jobless for past two years. And sad thing is normally guys ashamed to stay home, but prolonged time of staying home made him immune to that feeling, and now happily staying at home and living on wife's earning.
Better safe then sorry.