I am a firm believer in NOT changing people.
I find its best to try and accept someone exactly how they are and if that person doesn’t work for you…then its not meant to be.
The question is…is it possible for someone to change? Is it possible for a man to change his views on women after marriage with time? Or am I just being naive?
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*I think people change with experience, but if someone is dheet, you cant win. again , your question is too subjective. *
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What kind of views are we talking about?
If you're expecting a drastic change, that might not happen, unless some major life changing event occurs. Slight changes in views are natural and do happen over time.
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Yep, I've seen people change dramatically over the years.
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Mens view about women change radically after marriage, its a rule, not an exception.
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People change with time.
As someone once said , " Change is the Only constant thing in the universe."
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“Women marry men hoping they will change. Men marry women hoping they will not. So each is inevitably disappointed.”
Albert Einstein
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Mens view about women change radically after marriage, its a rule, not an exception.
In what ways?
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Situations and other consequences may change one's life
Depends on the person, and how unatttactive their views are to you. Change does not mean they start holding polar opposite views they may soften their stance on something, or the change could be that they harden their stance on something.
To use a lame example
If a dude wants women to be in full hijab and chaddar, It is unlikely that he will change so much that tanktop and capris are going to be okay. He may move to accept dupatta but he may also start expecting a burqa.
Also, it's not just the type of change but time to get there.
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Yep, I've seen people change dramatically over the years.
... Usually for the sake of the kids... NOT for the wife.
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Change is inevitable, whats impossible is not to change.
Physical change aside, a change that has to do with a habit, mannerism, a characteristic trait or even a belief isn't as despicable or rare of an occurrence as its made out to be. Outrageous would be to think most of the impeccable marriages/relationships going strong today haven't embraced change at some point down the road of their success.
Personally, I believe people do change. Some men consider making changes every year while some do it on a daily scale. The main intent/goal is always to shine, become better. I just don’t see why a man would avoid altering his views that leads him to be a more better man in the grander scheme of things. And if he can create/cause change for himself, he sure could muster up the courage needed to change his skewed views on women as well.
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I am a firm believer in NOT changing people.
I find its best to try and accept someone exactly how they are and if that person doesn't work for you...then its not meant to be.
The question is...is it possible for someone to change? Is it possible for a man to change his views on women after marriage with time? Or am I just being naive?
I don't understand one thing: if his views are not good about women then how come the woman gets married to him?
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There is a very thin line b/w changing and being adjusting/accommodating. I am all for later one.
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yes men do change after marriage..my personal experience.my husband did!
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I am a firm believer in NOT changing people.
I find its best to try and accept someone exactly how they are and if that person doesn't work for you...then its not meant to be.
The question is...is it possible for someone to change? Is it possible for a man to change his views on women after marriage with time? Or am I just being naive?
Short answer, yes.