Re: Question for men with regards to Jamaat.
I have not had any experience with Jamaat guys here in the US, probably because I meet them at the masjid. However, in Pakistan, every now and then a jamaat will come to our home. I don't remember them ever expecting to be admitted inside the house. They'd usually come after asar, and just stand outside the gate (3 or 4 of them) and we'll just talk briefly about state of ummah and other wonderful topics, I'll promise to bring them some jalebi for maghrib salah and they will leave with a huge grin on their faces. It was hardly ever unpleasant.