question for men, plz answer

[Faisal]

*Originally posted by 714: *
psst…how do you convert kilos to pounds?

Online Conversion - Convert just about anything to anything else

[CorruptAngel]

*Originally posted by mAd_ScIeNtIsT: *

I’m 21, 5 feet 8 inches tall, weigh 65kg and think that I’m fat!!!

You’re not overweight at all…check out height/weight chart :

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[mushi]

Re: question for men, plz answer

If she knows her husband then she also knows what her husband finds attractive and finds unattractive. End of the day its her decision to look nice for her husband. This is perfectly healthy and good because it makes her confident about herself and her relationship. As far as the husband is concerned, he should keep his comments to himself and not make her feel guilty about her physical appearance. His duty is to remain clean and hygeinic for her in the same way. Understanding ki baat hoti haye, wayse after marriage (when the curiosity is not as blatant anymore) the beauty is seen usually seeked from within. This is my opinion by the way, and I’m unmarried.

*Originally posted by 714: *
i don’t know how to ask this tactfully, and i don’t know if i’ll even make sense when i ask it, but i hope you’ll understand what im trying to say.

is your wife thin? are you happy with her body? is her body “sexy” enough? if she isn’t thin now, was she when you married her? and if her body has changed are you still attracted to her and satisfied with her? or are you greatly turned off?in the same token what about you? has your body changed greatly after marriage? do you expect her to remain fit and beautiful even though you yourself have not?

if u’re unmarried what are your feelings?

i’m just trying to make sense, because girls are in this constant struggle to look so beautiful while many guys are just ehh. I keep getting told “noone wants an overwieght girl…when i was your age i was barely 100 pounds…oh she’s so beautiful, dekho kitni gauri hai..” and on and on. One day i overheard a couple of aunties talking. One of them has had 5 kids. She’s pretty young still and shes had them all one right after the other. She was saying how she needs to lose the weight off the last one because her husband has never seen her like this. I was thinking, “my god, u’re so pretty mashallah, you just had your 5th child, so u’re a little heavy-u did just have a baby, and for god’s sake who keeps you pregnant all the time! ” i was so annoyed at her thought process.

i’m just i’m not asking this to attack any guys, i honestly want an opinion. i want to attempt to understand your thoughts. thank you

[mushi]

Mad’s not overweight, he’s just shares his body with a certain Mr. Big that somehow keeps getting bigger and bigger with the rest of the body intact.

*Originally posted by CurruptAngel: *

You’re not overweight at all…check out height/weight chart :

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[mAd_ScIeNtIsT]

*Originally posted by mushi: *
Mad’s not overweight, he’s just shares his body with a certain Mr. Big that somehow keeps getting bigger and bigger with the rest of the body intact.

True that. I look like a stick insect with a football (soccer ball) where the stomach should be

[AmericanDeSi]

i think ladies must look good, pretty and u know sexy but for man they must look like a man and thats enough for them… she begin slim and good looking is important for girls not man… as long as they are man

its a mans world baby…

[PUNGA2002]

714, Love is truly blind. If you are marrying for looks only then you are in for disappointment. When I met my wife, she was a bit on the heavier side but I didn't notice. Her face and complexion was most attractive to me. She gained quite a lot of weight after marriage. I failed to notice it because I wasn't looking at her weight, I was looking at her. She decided to lose weight on her own and ended up shedding about 60 pounds. I'll admit that she is more attractive now but I still look at her and not her weight. I can only tell the difference looking at her old pics that she was over weight. Our recent pic is posted under "Love of my Life" thread in images. Just imagine her being 60 pounds heavier and me being 15 pounds lighter.

I, on the other hand, was considered thin ( about 150-155 pounds) 5 feet 9 when we got married and has gained about 10-15 varying pounds. I can only say that it has added to my personality rather than take somehting away.

I think we have improved with time. We are happy to be together regardless of added/lost pounds. I think compatibility is the main issue here.

I hope this satisfies your curiosity.

[714]

Punga!!! you are lovely thank you for that. it was my favorite reply.

before you all go making assumptions-no i’m not obese or anything of the sort, i just have friends getting married and all anyone talks about is trying to be good enough in the physical sense. I myself wil probably starve myself for a year before i get married And i hate it when we go to weddings and people are just “oh she’s so dark, what did they see in her?” etc.

[PUNGA2002]

I’m glad you liked it 714. Goodluck.

[Praetextatus]

yes :( Punga good reply man :k

But it is true, pak/indian s are SHALLOW.

One of the reasons I dont meat em alot.
f.e. saw some indian movies and the guys would always look @ a girl and BOOOM they r in love. ok she s pretty, bur the q that remains: is that all one looks for in life? PATHETIC

Sad sad...... . .