What would you do if someone outside of your family repeatedly disrespected your wife, such as yelled at her in front of everyone without a valid reason, although I can find no valid reason to yell at someone in front of an audience?
Consider this person a mutual or family friend, a co-worker, neighbor, ETC in other words someone that you have to deal with on a daily basis.
Would you let it slide?
What if it continues and you see that this is hurting your wife?
How would you handle this situation?
What if your wife requested that you limit your communication with him to what is absolutely mandatory? Would you consider that reasonable? Would you continue to communicate with him on a personal level, or would you respect your wife’s wishes, and understand her reasoning?
Any man in his right mind wouldn't let another man, especially without a "valid" reason, disrespect his wife at all......... let alone in front of an audience
Any man in his right mind wouldn't let another man, especially without a "valid" reason, disrespect his wife at all......... let alone in front of an audience
female.............. I guess I should change "wouldn't let another man" to "shouldn't let another man"
Any man in his right mind wouldn't let another man, especially without a "valid" reason, disrespect his wife at all......... let alone in front of an audience
female.............. I guess I should change "wouldn't let another man" to "shouldn't let another man"
Yeah see that is the female perspective. But men tend to make excuses and say I have to talk to him for this and that reason, and eventually they start chilling like nothing ever happened until he just disrespects his wife again, it becomes a pattern. The issue is since the husband did not stop it in the first place, it makes the other party think that their behavior is ok, and that why should the stop if the husband doesn’t have a problem.
wouldnt let that happend at all. No other man or woman has any right to yell at my wife for valid or invalid reason. I will start yelling at that person as soon as they start and break all ties with him/her. Even that being my family.
why outside of your family... why would even let someone inside of your family to disrespect your wife...
I agree. Not even the husband's family has the right to yell at the wife. Whoever has the issue should talk to the husband so he could sort things out.
When it comes down to family the situation is different. You have to sit both parties down and talk everything over.
This happened to my friend, and she was repeatedly disrespected by a family friend, and her husband minimized his communication with this person for a few weeks, only to start chilling with him again, and then the guy disrespected her again. Each time her husband agreed that he should not communicate with him anymore, but always ended up finding an excuse. They started working together recently (this was a coincidence not planned) the guy asked her husband out to lunch and he asked his wife, she said yes, because she didnt want her saying no to be the reason for him not to go, she wanted him to realize on his own that if he went with him or continues to be friends with him, he is not only disrespecting her, but himself as well. He says he understands, but his behavior states the opposite.
Yeah see that is the female perspective. But men tend to make excuses and say I have to talk to him for this and that reason, and eventually they start chilling like nothing ever happened until he just disrespects his wife again, it becomes a pattern. The issue is since the husband did not stop it in the first place, it makes the other party think that their behavior is ok, and that why should the stop if the husband doesn’t have a problem.
Its same like blunder done by one person, then beat the whole tribe.
If you consider every man as same then you are wrong, and if you still want to consider every man equal then there are many stories regarding women in which every person with commonsense can think that you can blame everyone for the deed of one crackhead.
More on I do have friends and I do "had" fiance. Any person either my friend or outsider or even any other person from my family (excluding parents and siblings, as for me they are only the family) can not say anything regarding my private life or to any one who is part of my family. Thats final and I act on it too and I know how to act on it.
Its same like blunder done by one person, then beat the whole tribe.
If you consider every man as same then you are wrong, and if you still want to consider every man equal then there are many stories regarding women in which every person with commonsense can think that you can blame everyone for the deed of one crackhead.
More on I do have friends and I do "had" fiance. Any person either my friend or outsider or even any other person from my family (excluding parents and siblings, as for me they are only the family) can not say anything regarding my private life or to any one who is part of my family. Thats final and I act on it too and I know how to act on it.