cheating? why would u even go there?
maybe just figure out how important the message is she needs to give to him.. if it can wait. Then wait.
I actually cant stop myself from discussing everything with the husband.. so ive had to teach myself to email or message if it’s that important. And if i call and he hangs up… it means he’s busy and no need to be offended.
Work is important… it’s not like someone has all day to sit and chat