Re: Question for girls and guys
I have had somewhat long courtships and they didnt work out for one reason or the other, that is why I think this time I just dont want to go through all of that again. I find that the longer I know a person, the more doubts tend to set in.
Mamaof3, I dont think I will ever feel mature enough to think that yes I am absolutely ready to be a wonderful wife to someone. The prospect of marriage has always been somewhat scary for me. It's something I feel I will simply have to adapt to.
My parents met on their wedding day but they had a strong commitment to stay together despite any issues arising in the marriage. Mash'Allah. To me commitment is what matters a lot in a marriage. So even if I know a person a short-time, if they tell me ahead of time that they are willing to remain committed through the ups and downs, that will give me some reassurance.