Mirch
February 27, 2010, 1:28pm
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Arranged marriage is what it says - ‘arranged’
Arranged to remain in your ‘caste’ ,
Arranged for keeping the ‘wealth’ within the family.
Arranged to marry into an influential family,
Arranged to gain ‘money’ or ‘dowry’.
Arranged - as in 2nd or 3rd wife to an old man.
Arranged to keep your parents promise to some one, etc etc
A woman can learn to respect her husband, fear him, bear his children - but no way can you call that ‘love’.
Love is that ‘flutter’ of your heart, with the mere mention of his (or her)name.
Love is the ‘blush’ on your cheeks just with the thought of him touching you..
Love is the longing to hear his voice, to be near him.
Love is to willingly give your life for saving your beloved.
Love is the purest form of the union between man & woman.
Live on your dreams beta. Your mother will say to you." Jub terey mahbooba biwi bun-nay k baad apna asli rang dekha-a gee to pata chalay ga k sair key kitni paktee hain."