Re: Question about the dress
Not at all. that would be a big sin. imo
Also wife should not do lap dance, belly dance or strip tease…it might ignite passion in man and he may want to have passionate sex. And passionate sex is a big no no 
Pious muslim husband and wife should always engage in passive sexual activity. Passionate sex is ways of kuffar and immitating them is haraam. Allah knows the best.
pun intended, absolutely !