Re: question about concieving
Some old aunts around me told the same, baad me probs hongi, but I dont think that. Baad, what baad? How does a bachha know ke meri mama ki kabse shadi hui hay and mujhay pehle aa jana chahye tha?
Problem occurs only when you start taking contraceptive pills. So one shouldn’t take those or have iud insterted. Find other ways for precautions and you can have no problem conceiving in future 
Good Luck!