It’s not that I find your **“insecurities” ** unacceptable…it’s just that I find them to be unreasonable. Even if you were to approach this guy, your conversation most likely would be only a for a few minutes. What does it matter if you’re wearing a shirt or a jacket? He’s not your boss, your relative, your father-in-law that you need to impress him. I doubt that he’d even care about what you’re wearing as long as it’s decent. If this meeting were to take place, it would be casual…so the attire should be casual. I apologize if you feel disrespected, that wasn’t my intention. Yes, I’m aware that nobody is forcing me to post and I’m not basing my decision/right to post based on your “insecurities.” LOL.