Amir…Do you think about what you write sometimes or no??? Is this thread of yours a JOKE? Is this your idea of FUNNY??? Because it seems like it’s a joke, as the questions are odd. Or are you drunk???
“Is it better if I say hi, or is it better to say hello?” First of all, Amir, the words “hi” and “hello” mean the same thing. It won’t make much of a difference.
Secondly, why the hell does it matter if you approach this guy wearing a t-shirt or a jacket??? Are you trying to please him or something?? Who cares if this guy never wears a t-shirt. He doesn’t have any desire to wear t-shirts like other people because he’s confident/secure enough to wear whatever he wants to wear. Why are you so concerned about pleasing him? As long as one is dressed decently, is all that matters.
“He’s neither rich nor poor”.…okay, so he’s a middle-class fellow. Big deal! Many people belong to the middle class.
“He doesn’t look upset or happy” If he’s not upset, then that’s good. Not being upset or happy is a fairly normal facial expression. You will find it on many people.
“He hasn’t talked to anybody for years.” OMG…I’ve lived in my neighborhood for years and there are people I’ve never talked to…and they haven’t talked to me. And it’s no big issue.
“He’s neither old nor young.” Okay…so?
Look…it’s not mandatory for this guy to talk to anybody. Just go up to him and say hi, how are you, you seem worried to me at times, is everything okay. That’s it!
I don’t understand why you’re making a big deal about a guy who has lived in your community for years and hasn’t bothered anyone. Leave him alone, he’s not hurting anyone. You make it seem like he’s going to show up at your window in the middle of the night with a chain-saw.
Amir…you’re worrying about what whether you should wear a shirt or a jacket when you approach this guy. Are you sure you aren’t QUEER?