Yes.
I wasn’t passive aggressive before marriage either. It gets extremely hard some days because I want my life SO bad and it feels like it has been on hold for as long as I have been married. Unfortunately, there is no way to resolve my problem without breaking their hearts. He is their only son (have three daughters but can’t expect much from them since they are traditional) and I would rather walk away from this marriage than take him from them. At least that’s how they will see it so moving out or living away is not an option for me. Not trying to be all saint-y and stuff. I am an absolute b*t**, don’t get me wrong. There is also a huge difference in our mindsets. They are very traditional and religious while I am a liberal, agnostic atheist. LOL
I just try to be grateful for what I have on the good days. The bad days are so bad that Mr. Theorist has no idea how to handle me.