Black n white where you can rape 9 yr old war captives, regardless of their faith?
Really 
Are we talking about hoomans or the religion Islam itself? I’m talking about what Allah says in His book, not what hoomans do “in the name of religion”. There’s no insaniyat in many hoomans, that’s not the fault of Islam. Apples and pears, Bobby uncle, apples and pears.
This is probably irrelevant, but a (good) friend of mine who was qadiani also hid the fact that she was of that sect. We only found out when her grandfather passed away and it was mentioned during his obituary on the local radio. I had known her for a few years by then. Not that her beliefs mattered to me that much.Ofcourse thats a completely different scenario than rishta.
Yeah but when it’s convenient they don’t hide it. Back when I lived in Wimbledon (London), in nearby Mordon there is this huge Ahmadi mosque which got damaged by fire and whenever their communities would be mentioned in the local newspapers it was always in a very positive way and they can always count on “support of the local community”. And they themselves never waste time letting non-muslims know that they’re the peaceloving and law-abiding Ahmadi Muslims. Trying to fool people into buying their distorted version of Islam but anyways.
They sure are a tight-knit and hardworking community, I’ll give them that.
I really do think now that some qadiani folks are doing this on purpose as this guy friend of mine mentioned something similar when I told this to him aboit my friend. He said he was never told about this by the girl even though they were in relationship for quite a long time & when it came to marriage she told him & asked him to convert which he didnt ofcourse hence end of relationship. They emotionally involve the other person & reveal when its less likely for the other person to back out or it gets difficult though emotionally. They appear to be really religious though… pata nahi laga sata banda
I can’t imagine an Ahmadi Muslim wanting to marry a non-Ahmadi. Even if that non-Ahmadi was fine with their faith, more often then not their families aren’t going to be happy about it. That might because I don’t buy that whole “opposites attract, you can’t help who you love” BS and think it is better to fall in love with people that are compatible with you in key areas.
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Agreed with Nomi Bahi
If they Really Think they are not wrong - why do they need to keep their Belief Hidden ??
It would vary be person. Religion/sect/subsect etc may be more important for some versus others. If it is important than it’s going to be a no go.
not discussing this early on or sharing it early on is more concerning