Here is the Questions thread:
And here are her answers! Philo when you’re ready! 
Lastly thank you for taking the time, I know you’ve been looking forward to answering them, have fun!
Rest of you enjoy!
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Philosophy ,at age of 32 how do u feel about your achievements and what do u thing you cud have achieved?
Well, one husband, 3 kids, one house, 2 cars, 5 cats, and lots of soney ka sets in about 32 years...I think I have done pretty well for myself. I just wish I had one more son though :(.
How do you view marriage?
Can be wonderful. I have seen good marriages and bad marriages up close. You make it what it is :) and it should be beautiful. and certainly not passive.
Also, it should happen for the right reasons...with the right intentions.
Are you feminazi/feminist?
No I am not. I just like to vocalize some things I feel strongly about. However, since people do like to label any one who wants rights for women "feminazi" I'd just like to say:
"Feminism is the radical idea that women are human." --this is how someone put it into perspective for me once.
**what changes do u want to bring in a desi society? what do u want to change in them?
**I would to see them follow religion (if they so wish) instead of culture and not mix the two.
There's a whole laundry list, but I wont list because the above statement pretty much sums it up. If we bring that change, everything else should fall into place.
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What's that in your avatar?
a girl? :(
How did you come across GS?
google. was looking for some celeb pictures.
**pakilarka:
Are you male or Female ?**
male.
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*what do you think is the ideal age where you sort of want to have achieved something big by? *
I don't set these deadlines anymore. I think we waste a lot of time waiting for a certain deadline we set up in our mind.
what do you value the most in life?
self-respect, happiness.
I think that's what you meant?
mangoes or pineapples?
pineapple
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1. Will you marry a guy born and bred in the US, or will you prefer someone raised in the home country? Or it doesn't matter?
Doesn't matter. The mind-set matters. I think it would be kinda boring to spend my whole life in one place though? But, I am used to living here. Such tough questions nikky :(. Can I get a guy from Russia?
*2. What will be the 2 most significant traits you would want in your husband?
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Respectable and respectful.
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- Do you think desi women are more dramatic, or the men?**
women.
*4. Who do you trust and respect most on GS? If you don't feel comfortable answering, you don't have to. *
Respect: Ehsan. You. Sahar02.
Trust: The 4 friends. K,K,S,S.
there are others but I only named some people.
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5. Do you have a role model?
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Nah. We all lead our own lives:D
Rest, later :D
OMG, it's hot.
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Omg 
a freshly plucked rose for you from the life1 garden. God bless.
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aghaa its the first time i read all replies .i want one of ur cat.:|
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*How many bachay do you want? *
2-3
*Is there a Mr.Philosophy *
No
If no Mr.Philo than would you rather be with a mamma's boy or a bad ass?
neither :S He should love his mom and respect her, not follow her around. I love my mom too. Moms are lovely.
How many multi's are you?
hahahah. aaaah. lots. BUT, i have never used a multi to pretend to be another person on here. Some person or the other always knows it's me messing around. All the ones I (we?) have our from cafe days where we used do lots of masti. We created various families like Jutha family? Bartan Family? There was some uncle family too hahahah.
*If you could be anything, i mean ANYTHING in-terms of career, what would you choose? *
teacher or actor.
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**When are we meeting for pie? **
I don’t meet strangers, so until you show you picture we cannot 
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hmmm guess you missed my blog with pics , oh well …
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**why do you hat****e me so much 
** I do not hate you. I can dislike thoughts and ideas you may have.
How annoyed are you at Desi people?
Not very annoyed. I think i need to clarify that a lot of what I say in life1 is a reply to the extreme threads the women/men open here. If they open a thread on an abusive Pakistani husband who will not stop…then I would tell her to leave him.
In real life people are multi-dimensional and situations need to be assessed.
Also, sometimes it’s all purely rhetorical and it is good to throw in another angle because people start saying the same stuff over and over again.
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Do you think you have figured out what you want in life?**
Not yet.
Do you think you are good at seeing through people?
very good.
How much life1 has influenced your views? Since you’ve been here for quite some time…
Life1 has not, but people on GS have. When I was new and young I used to read the posts of “General” (a forum that no longer exists) and just think if I would ever be able to sound like them. They were veryveryvery witty and good. People like ravage, cat_woman, X2, man with a plan, lusi, a bunch of others…
GS exposed me to a lot and i did grow up here
How stubborn are you?
I can be. All depends on how people talk to me.
Will you marry a Habshi if he is all good-looking and nice personality?
I like habshi halwa.
Whats your profession?
I am a student.
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*why philosophy? *
"love of wisdom"=philosophy. Also, I reallyreally like the facewash purity by Philosophy hahahha.
cookies or cake?
cookies
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Favourite book that you would recommend?**
My Feudal Lord, Stuff by Umera Ahmed, To Kill A Mockingbird, As I Lay Dying, The Great Gatsby, The Old Man and the Sea, The Catcher in the Rye. I wish I still had time to read. :S
oh, The Metamorphosis
and..The Notebook, A Walk to Remember...
Hobbies/Interests?
Movies, music, cooking, shopping, Reading :D
Are you married?
No
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how did you find GS and why did you join?**
Google. I joined because I had to to view some attachment. haha.
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**Why havnt you changed your name to Molly yet?
**I do have Molly.
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*Would you rather always have to say everything on your mind or never speak again? *
Never speak again. (God forbiddd!!!)
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Would you rather end hunger or hatred? **
hunger.
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Would you rather love and not be loved back, or be loved but never love?
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I don't know :( I guess love and not be loved back? Because it must be a nice feeling to have, but then again I don't really think it's love unless it's two-sided.
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Guacamole..............yay or nay?**
yay! but i can't make it
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what are the 5 qualities in a man you find most important?
honesty, education, open-minded, family-oriented?, has clarity of thought.
what are the 5 qualities in a woman you find the most important?
self-respect, honesty, education, open-minded, not brainwashed my moms and khalas and doesn't have the "i am a bechari" syndrome.
Which relationship do you find closest to your heart?
my mom.
What was your worst fear in childhood?
darkness, being left alone, waking to the sounds that made my heart shiver.
Whats your worst fear now?
Being alone. failure. not being able to sustain relationships.
One thing that can switch your mood from bad to good?
Good foooooood. and a good attitude.
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One thing that can switch your mood from good to bad?**
nasty, unwelcoming attitude. Aunty jees who spread stuff.
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- Morning Lark, Night Owl or Humming-bird?
Morning Lark
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- Do you like animals? What animal would you have as a pet and what would you name it?**
Uhhh…A bakri. I’d name her Gidsa.
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- So are you a good public speaker? If not, is there a story somewhere?**
Yes. I am now, m’A There was a time I feared it.
- So someone is proper criticizing you. How do you deal with it? (Real life ofcourse)
Let them. smile. Sometimes they can be right. And if theyre just being stupid, then I end up giving stupid comebacks which I regret later on. But there are times I put people in their place 
- What was the biggest lie you ever told?
Probably making stupid excuses for missing school.
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- Do you have any phobias? Like legit ones!**
I’m not sure :S
- Do you ever find it difficult to express yourself? What feeling do you have the hardest time expressing? And vice versa.
Yes I do. Almost every emotion :S I tend to internalize a lot.
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- Your husband decides to grow his beard. Proper long. Love or Hate?**
NO. I’d shave it off while he’s sleeeping.
**- Ghafoor Chacha wants to marry me off to Nadia. Will you fight for me?! I mean you know how ***y she is!
But Nadia and you are perfect for each other!!! m’Aaa
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- On a scale of 1 to 10 and keeping in mind the social unrest in the Middle East, why am I so awesome?**
I’ll give you an 11, you’re pretty cool for a guy:chai:
- You’re driving interstate. I’m looking for a ride. Would you pick me up? I’ll show a bit of leg if that helps
maybe if you’re in a burka!
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If you were a tree which one would you be?
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*If i were to invite you to have cup of coffee with me and provided i was the richest man of the world. Would you consider?. *
No. I'd be suspicious!
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Are you a gold digger?.**
No, but education and a stable career are important, call that whatever you want.
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i’m really really like the answers so far :rotato: