Q&A: Zindagi aur Aap. Aaj ka Mehmaan: inspiron's Answers

Here is the Questions thread:

http://www.paklinks.com/gs/life-and-relationships/507316-q-and-a-zindagi-aur-aap-aaj-ka-mehmaan-inspiron.html

And here are her answers! inspiron when you’re ready! :smiley:

Lastly thank you for taking the time, I know you’re busy so whenever you get the time!

Rest of you enjoy!

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HI guys :slight_smile: thankyou for talking the time out to ask me questions I am honoured to be a guest :slight_smile:

BBQ’s questions

***Inspiron, how much do you hate Shak and how much do you love me?


Alot :frowning: so much so I am attending a BBQ next weekend :slight_smile:

***Tell us a bit about your research, just a few lines. And how was the overall experience?


My research was looking at what the british media says about testing for prostate cancer using the PSA test and what this means for patients.

The overall fantastic was brilliant i would say. I had finished 4 years of medschool and to be honest I really needed a break from it all! In the UK and im sure some other countries you are able to take a year out and complete a BSc in a year and do some research.

I learnt so much in this year, i learnt how to use my brain in a completely different way, i met lots of new people because I was away from the medical school which is like a small community, I learnt team working skills as I had to work as part of a large team.

I was also able to concentrate on myself more the initial 6 months of my research were pretty chilled out and so i worked on my body and mind and spent alot more time at home with my parents, i had a tough year before hand and this was my fresh start.

Due to all of the above I loved my year of research and im really grateful for the opportunity :slight_smile:

***From your thread in AV, I’m assuming you’re nearly finished. So, what next? (Mr. Inspiron, perhaps? :faizy: )


hehe , well a Mr Inspiron sure thing If i meet the right guy.

Whats next in the short term is lots of sleeping resting and chilling and catching up with friends who i havent seen for ages, maybe a mini holiday.

In the long term- finish med school, do my finals and apply for jobs iA and hopefully pass my exams. I also want to try and make sure i keep up with everything i learnt during my research year.

In the long long long term- many holidays yayyyyyyyy

***The most important person in your life?


My Dad.

If I could be half the person my dad is i would be proud of myself. The grace with which my dad lives his life is amazing I also look upto to him alot because he came from nothing and is now mA a very successful man.

My dad has sacrificed alot for me and my brother and I could never thank him enough.

***Who do you turn to for venting or seeking advice?

***the lovely GS crew :slight_smile:

I have some very close friends who i can turn to as well and my mummy.

I guess it depends whats its about.

Im a talker I have verbal diarrohea i just cant hold my issues in so I vent to alot of people and I also try and gain advice from all my friends, this can sometimes be great but sometimes be not so good as i have learnt that at times its best to keep personal stuff to yourself.

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Niksiks questions

***I like your nick. Tell me what inspired you.


Its actually the name of a laptop haha! Totally uncreative. When making my account I just saw it written on my laptop and thought yeahhh thatll do hehe

***-What are your hobbies?

***Oh lots!

I love cooking thats hobby number 1. I find cooking extremely therapeutic and also it allows my creative juices to flow. I dont find cooking hard to be honest, the more complicated the recipe the more i enjoy it. I am an extremely competitive person and love to challenge myself and cooking allows me to do this too

As I mentioned above I am quite creative, all through high school i did alot of art and writing, on the occasion i like to sketch and draw a few of my stuff was put up in our old family home. I just dont get the time anymore.

Movies I am a movie buff, I particularly enjoy psychological thrillers and movies that make you think. I am also a big big fan of international and art house films and find them on the net and love to take time out alone and sit for an hour or too with a cup of tea.

I read alot too again i read mainly psychological thrillers but i also enjoy a good old girly read

Recently ive got into working out so that is a developing hobby of mine

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Dems Questions

***1-What is the most important lesson you've learned so far about people management?


The most important lesson I have learnt so far is that being a good listener takes you a long way in the positive direction and also being open to other peoples ideas and views.

***2-What is your favourite item in your wardrobe? What's the story behind it?


This is a toughy

I would say a grey maxi dress I have. It is a beautiful silvery greay and made from material that looks like its liquid, it is completely covered has long sleeves but fites impeccably. I always get loads of compliments when i wear it another reason I love it is because I got it for half the price by accident!

I was on a lunch break and took a trip to have lunch and stopped off at this little boutique on the way. My friends birthday was coming up and i saw this dress and just had to have it. It was £120 on the price tag and i thought meh what the hell its a beautiful beautiful dress and it was down from 150. I tool the dress to the till and the girl was some spotty adolecent chewing gum and bored out her face and I dont know what she did but she only asked for 40. I didnt argue ( maybe i was morally incorrect here ) but i literally stuffed the money into her hand and ran out the shop.

The dress is georgeous and evergreen :)

***3-Children chasing one another at weddings, talking or laughing loudly around the stage - "aww cute?" or "SOMEone needs to grab ahold of that kid!"


Someone needs to grab that kid!

I really think at weddings there should a be a play area for kids or a clown or magician or 10 babysitters or something! It gives the parents a break and also stops the kids running around on stage which i find highly irritating!

***4-What quality of yours do you take the most pride in?


My ability to be honest with myself and the fact i can adapt and adjust quickly to all sorts of environments with all kinds of people.

***5-What do you wish to change or better in your personality?


I am too sensitive regarding some matters also I am a little bit naaive and I see the world through rose tinted glasses I need to toughen up and also accept the world isnt all flowers and faries.


6-What appeals to you first and foremost in someone new?


hmmmm someone who is non judgmental

7-If you were a hired assassin with a contract to do away with someone, how would you go about it? Weapon of choice, mode of action etc?

Samuri sword clean cut to the head. I dont know why its the first thing that popped into my mind.

and

***8- Will you be able to make it to my wedding?? :D

***​If i am in pakistan than iA yes :)

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STAs questions

***1. when you hate?


I dont understand the question haha

***2. what was your joining story of gs?


You know what I honestly cant remember it was most likely knowing myself to vent and moan about some part of my life hehe
***3. who is your fav. guppy/guppan?


I have got to know Demesne really well and I love her <3

I also like hmmm Sahar because I imagine in real life she is quite a cool person and would be a great big sister type figure

Nomi actually makes me laugh sometimes although i used to find him so annoying

Im sure there are more people but cant think of them right now!


  1. fav. food? *** Prawn tempura with chilli soy garlic sauce

Daal chawal aur chicken shorbay wala

***5. Tell me something about yourself?


Oh this is a tough one hmmmmmmmm I have never broken a bone in my life.
***6.. love or money

***Love, although I love the idea of having lots of money to buy pretty things without love no matter how many pretty things you buy you would still feel a void in your life.

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Okay more tomorrow :)

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DELL. :@:

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Thank you thank you!!!!

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Aww. The love is muchly returned my sweet!

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haha I LOVE that you didn't cringe at the assassin question. I imagine I'd put them in a huge mincemeant machine and watch them churn out the other end.
Admittedly, I don't need a contract for it, I imagine that whenever I'm ever so mad at someone , although I keep calm on the surface :)

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el topos questions

***What are some of your favourite books and films?


Favourite film- The Prestige and Crash oh and City of God (brazillian) and Caramel (lebanese)

Favourite Book- Angelas Ashes by frank McCourt and I like J. Patterson and Patricia Cornewell books as they are all murder mystery

***What makes you cry?


Omg i cry at lame things on TV like when families get reunited on weird talk shows haha. To be honest anything related to family love makes me cry esp when related to dads as i am very close to my own. Last time i cried was yesterday at my friends mehndi because she looked so beautiful

***What would you change about yourself?


As mentioned before I shouldnt be so sensitive

***What do you admire about yourself?


My ability to adapt to different situations quickly

***What is your secret dream?


to get enough money to open a restaurant in Australia

I like your foodiness, so;

***what was the first thing you learned to cook?


An omlette hehe I love cooking!

***what would you pick to be your last meal?

***ooohh tough one I think It would have to be a juicy steak for starter cooked medium rare and of a prime cut and then for main mums lamb biriyani with lauqi ka raita and for dessert a rich creamy kulfi!

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Princess121's questions

***What is the one most important thing you're looking for from your spouse?


You know what I have been trying to figure this out recently and i dont actually know my answer changes hourly at the moment i guess its respect!

***Best advice on how to maintain your figure after losing weight (lol)


You have to realise that what you did to lose weight has to become your lifestyle. Maintain cardio and a good diet with treats every now and the to keep yourself happy and sane!


Why did you choose to study medicine?


Because after my work experience i realised how much i enjoyed it, especially working with patients also i really like to challange myself and medicine sure is a challangeing career and degree!

***What do you see yourself doing and having achieved 10 years from now?


I want to be well established in my career, i want to be a consultant psychiatrist and i want to have travelled and made the most of my travelling oppertunities and iA be married by then too!

***If you could choose to be an animal, what animal would you be?


A bird so i could fly from country to country and see the world. birds just seem so free!

***Friends or Family?


My friends are like my family so i guess family??

***What word would you choose to best describe your life up till now?

***an adventure!

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marmalades questions

***Did you get your name from the line of Dell laptops?


haha yes how uncreative!

***Were there any other career paths or areas of study that you considered, aside from medicine?


Career paths no but degrees yes- i thoroughly enjoyed geography at school and would have loved to study that at uni!

***Favourite song at the moment?


oooh probably Pritam by Sanam Marvi in desi stuff anddd Chase and Status- Delilah in western stuff

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KKF's Questions

**since you gonna be a medical doctor very soon, would you work in a less friendly, less comfy and less safe environment in order to help the poor?

**Yes i would 100% I would love to join medsin san frontier which is a group of doctors which goes to natural distasters as soon as they strike. I would also love to help pakistan and pakistanis promoted mental health understanding and making it less of a taboo issue.

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Ashyyyyy :)

OMMGG you are one of my fave Guppies too!

***- What thing do you want to change the most in arranged desi rishta process?


The influence of mothers over their sons when making a choice

***- What qualities are you looking for in your spouse?


Already answered above i think!

***- Are you willing to move away from UK after marriage?

***Yes I am infact i would rather like to move away just to have a little adventure and experience a different country. I woulnt move to the north pole or anything though!

-*** How much desi do you think you are? How much do you like desi food, culture, dressing etc? Which food do you like the best?


I think im very very desi in some respects i love desi food and love cooking it, some parts of the culture i appreciate such is respect for elders love within the family and we are a loving freindly and fun loving bunch of people! I wear shalwar kameez at home all the time and i love love love it to uni i wear western clothes and i love western fashion too I think i appreciate both worlds alot. Biriyani and kulfi nom nom!

***Do you consider yourself to be more liberal than people living in Pakistan because of your upbringing in the UK?


Hahahah no! when i go back to karachi i feel like i am someone with no clue about anything and not liberal at all. I walk around in my shalwar kameez speaking urdu eating pani puri and people their are in their jeans talking english! The only thing i am liberal on is i am very independent and i am used to having an busy social life i go out with my friends alot and stay out pretty late too in pakistan this could be frowned upon!

***How do you manage to spend time on GS while having such tough studies?

***because i use GS as a distraction and study last minute haha

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Hareems question

***Where do you see yourself in next 5 years?

iA*** i will have passed my final exams and on my way to becoming a psychiatrist i see myself young and happy and enjoying a good social life and in my prime until i am 30 really. I see myself still discovering myself and experiencing new things i dont think i will be totally settled by then i think i will still be full of energy bouncing around finding my place in the world. If a man is in the picture he will have to keep up!

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okay more a bit later!

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Princess121 again!

***What's your medic to non-medic friend ratio?


Hmmm about 50-50 i make sure i have non medic friends otherwise i would go mad!

***What's the best piece of advice you've ever been given?


Never be afraid but always be aware- daddy

***Do you consider yourself religious?


No, I do the 5 pillars and i am quite spiritual as in i do fear god and try and be a good person and stick to as many teachings of islam as possible but i still do not consider myself religious i could be alot better


What do you wish to see in the world's next generation of youth?

***I want them to stop growing up so quickly! and play outside and not be stuck inside to the tv. My kids are going to be kids for as long as possible and i dont care how much they cry they are not allowed to play computer games all evening they must play outside.

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shaks questions ***

State five reasons lawyers are better than Medics


They are better liars?? thats not really a good thing though basically they arent better psht!

***What brought you to GS?


Answered above


Who is the most wisest member whose posts you like reading in Life1?

***Ashy- everything she says is comforting yet sensible and makes total sense

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***Uzzybuzzys questions

Any tips on how to revise and retain all the medical stuff you've learnt?


Repetition is the key to life!

***What do you want to specialise in in the future?


Psychiatry iA


Do you want to marry a doctor?

***Not really to be honest but i probs will end up marrying one just because my dad is a doctor and his friends are mainly doctors and then i know loads so the chances are higher bahhhhhhh