beside being hypocrisy-laden, when people say that they have aspiration to do things their way, and then ultimately they do what they are told to or expected to do (accounting for the external factors beyond control of the individual), what do you think is the importance of the role of acting on one’s own volition and standing by it, that they miss?
hmmm its tricky; if one has strong grounds and logic (and of course a strong character) to act on his own volition then no matter what external factors are, he will not budge. A deviation comes when there is some flaw either in his grounds or WILL