how can pure love be identified?? where there is cheating & fraud has almost become sooo common…
how can a girl/guy know, her/his partner is a true lover???
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just close ur eyes thinking abt him/her .......
if u see asif zardari ... then its pure love ....
it u see sarah palin .... then he/she is cheating ...
hahahaahahahahaha................... PLEaSEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE...let it be the serious topic...
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i was serious 
u can try tht :halo:
i wud imply, if it wud be my problem... but its jst a genernal discussion...
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Pluck flower a real natural flower not a silk flower, then start plucking the petals off of it and say he/she loves me , he/she loves me not with each pluck the last plucked petal will be your answer.
People have used this method for centuries and it is known to have worked every time. If you do not believe it then just give a try.
But don’t try to cheat the process like this cartoon:
good comic..hehehhe, but still this answer neither satisfied me... i need a serious reply........... & again i must tell you all, this in not wht i m asking as help, this is a general discussion, so suggestions r NOT required...
I posted the answer for everybody to benefit from. It is not necessarily geared towards you. :femme:
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LOVE is not a feeling. Love is an action. Love is a choice.
True Love is the action to choose unconditionally in the process of offering to another human being the qualities of:
Affection, Care, Concern, Respect, Thoughtfulness, Forgiveness, Compassion, Trust, Joy and many other positive emotional expressions of value and worth toward ANY living being as being Loveable and valuable.
Removing life support for a dying loved one.
In every example, Love is an action through choice.
When you see each other and have a smile on your face, when your loved one makes a mistake and you can't get angry on him even when you try hard. When you think of spending every possible time with your loved one.
This is true love
"True love" can and will differ from person to person based on emotional maturity. To know true love you not only must love in such a way that you would give your own life at the drop of a hat to save him/her, but you must be loved in return. If you get married to someone, and fifteen years later, you can still look them in the eye and feel the same you did on your first date, then it's true love. Like the below quote; a good way to know true love is to base it on how you feel for the last person you love romantically in your life.
"We always believe that our first Love is our last, and our last Love is our first."
True love: is hard to find and painful to lose, can be the best thing that happens to you or the worst, can drive you crazy or keep you sane, can destroy lives or save them, can stop wars or start them, can clarify or confuse, pushes and pulls people away, obvious and subliminal, is impossible to define
When one is aware of shortcomings of the partner and yet accepts.
When the ego does not come in between in differences and one would rather clear the air, or apologise and patch up, than break-up.
When one 'desires' the partner inspite of not 'needing' or 'wanting' the other.
When you 'chose' to be with him/ her inspite of other options - not bec there are no options !
When you give each other space and respect individuality.
When you enjoy togetherness - talking or even silence - and tender touching.
When you cant even think of hurting or insult the partners feeling.
Thats true love. Maybe too idealistic ? !
And it may or may not mean that it is reciprocated. It could be unrequited for all you know. But yet the memories bring a spring to the step and a smile on your face. You never wish him/ her ill and would never harm in any way.
These are just a few points which come to my mind but there is so much more n moren more. Like true love the topic is also 'endless'
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Ustad Jee , Thanks for copying and pasting.
It would have been better if you had provided the source too.
ahan...wud u describe one thing more, like lets take person X, he is feeling the same you mentioned... so can be taken as true love...BUT... how wud he know tht his partner is also true with him, ok if she cares, loves, shows sympathy... all tht a true love carries, how can he evaluate wht ever she's showing to him is her true feelings or..........?? wholely, how can he know, she's his true love???
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source nahi chalta, bina kisi ke source ke chalt hai sab kuch
Ustad Jee , Thanks for copying and pasting. It would have been better if you had provided the source too.
uff........her chees me mirch chahye, kisi ko bakhsh bhi dete hen... wt if it ws pasted... it ws a gud reply... atleast KISI ne mera topic to smjhaa...
There's no test or measurement of love...
(it's plain pagalpan)
There's no test or measurement of love...
(it's plain pagalpan)
Your post is pagalpan or love is pagalpan ? :ASA:
Pooray number hasil karnay k lee-a mufasil jawab dain. Safa-e k panch number extra hain.
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GINA i think you are right ( jo pyar ker chuke hote hai unhe pagalpan hi lagta hai)
( ask yourself deep inside)
Lo ji........ye naya twist aaya hy.... ary baba, not asking wht pure love is........... how much a pure love is........... so simple is the Query...HOW CN IT BE IDENTIFIED???
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Mirch jahan bhi jaati hai wahan mirchein laga ker ati hai
LOL ask urself deep inside! Well to answer u're question love doesn't come with a manual and there is no way to test anyone's love either.. some people are great actors in real life and can get-away with pretending to love an individual unconditionally...
(love is plain pagalpan..lol)
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app Tajurbekar lagti hai GINA :-)