So if you want a liberal partner then you have to go for an urdu speaking person, and if you want a traditional, conservative type then a punjabi? Interesting.
An observation I made the other day - Punjabi men are more possisive of their wives.
Guys typically from Karachi are more open minded. They don't care if their wives are friends with their male friends. Their wives call my husband by the first his name - no bhai added. They all sit together in one room (guys and gals) and joke around openly
Guys typically from punjabi households - don't particuarly like their wives mingling with their guy friends. Wives are friends with their male friend's wives. Most of them refer to my husband as "Bhai".
Any one else notice that?