so what is wrong with you not wanting your husband and wife to unecessarly mingle with male / female friends ??
how does that make anyone posessive or a sissy ????
and the bhai / bhabhi i feel is a very respectfull way of referring to someone
Mizzrani - there are some couple that DONOT want us to refer to them as bhai or bhabhi.
Women in particular - don't want to be called bhabhi because maybe it makes them seem older. They say that to my hubs that call me by my NAME.
I like bhai and bhabhi - but some ppl find them offensive!