I had one other example:
When girls today starting in middle schools, are dressing the way they are. The shamelessness in society that is becoming widespread is reaching the eyes of your son, regardless of his training at home, do you think he won't find the opposite sex appealing?
Move that scenario to High Schools, where it gets worse. Everyone has a weak spot, and iblis utilizes all his resources to make sure we falter. This in turn has an effect on Imaan, and these subtle mistakes prove destructive in the long term.
What do you think?
This is the reason why you need to look at the school district you're in and why it is important to choose to live in an area with a highly rated school system. The better schools do not allow shameless dressing and if a kid comes to school dressed inappropriately, they get sent home to change.
Boys should find the opposite sex appealing!! But they should also be learning how to deal with those feelings in an appropriate manner yeah? You cannot (or should not) shield a kid from the opposite sex till the day they marry! They need to learn how to interact with that half of the population yeah?