Ya missed my point matey .... generally pakistanis are very negatively sensitive about their sisters and daughters .... they dont mind doing it with others but it comes to their own crowd ... there are quite impressionable.......
and it about creating a norm for intimacy and affection .... should be followed by our crowd ...men ....
I totally agree with you.
My post was directed to mirch.
mine was for saint devil 
Are you two replying after reading the posts ? I hope you two are not surfing the net in your dreams and posting replies with your eyes closed. 
Wake up guys and smell the coffeee. 
Re: Public Display of Affection to wife/husband.
nope...cuz it confuses kids
i often see kids (my cuzins kids) asking their parents there why they were not invited to their parents wedding?
besides, everything should leads towards neutrality. whereas showing affection in public really is an extreme form of expression> tamasha lagana....as if you have no sense of "particularity", or carelessness even for ur own emotions.
Are you into showing affection to your significant other in Public ? What do you do ? Can you think of other ways which can be within the framework of our culture and religion ? Pakistani and Muslim background will pose a problem to go beyond certain
1-touch you feet under the table while dining, look into eyes think of the time ahead and smile.
2-As spock said , hold hands in Murrey since love is always in the air in murry.
even burqa posh khawateen hold hands there.
nope...cuz it confuses kids
i often see kids (my cuzins kids) asking their parents there why they were not invited to their parents wedding?
besides, everything should leads towards neutrality. whereas showing affection in public really is an extreme form of expression> tamasha lagana....as if you have no sense of "particularity", or carelessness even for ur own emotions.
Holding hands confuse kids?
yep…cuz these days they are getting loads of hygiene based lessons. 
so these kinda activities actually confuses them that who is right?
nope...cuz it confuses kids
i often see kids (my cuzins kids) asking their parents there why they were not invited to their parents wedding?
besides, everything should leads towards neutrality. whereas showing affection in public really is an extreme form of expression> tamasha lagana....as if you have no sense of "particularity", or carelessness even for ur own emotions.
I hope you are not looking for answer yourself, here.
You know why they weren't invited, right?
I hope you are not looking for answer yourself, here. You know why they weren't invited, right?
my parents couldnt afford pinhole camera photographerz (and i believe so is yours) so i was never went throw such situations.
my parents couldnt afford pinhole camera photographerz (and i believe so is yours) so i was never went throw such situations.
hmmm...
anyway, there is nothing wrong in kids asking why they weren't at their parents' wedding. It is natural question. There is nothing taboo about it.
Re: Public Display of Affection to wife/husband.
@zobia
fazol ki bateen mat karo.
What I meant was, you were not born. (As in hmmmmmmmm a JOKE)
Are you into showing affection to your significant other in Public ? What do you do ?
I have yet to find out but I know for sure that I will show my husband simple gestures of affection (because i am an affectionate person in general 
) such as holding hands (even in front of family) or even a peck on the lips (perhaps not in front of family).
There is nothing wrong with showing your spouse a little bit of affection in public as long as you are within your limits. Limits in my opinion would be defined in accordance to the shariah…meaning showing some hayaa and modesty while in public.
Can you think of other ways which can be within the framework of our culture and religion ?
a smile and/or a glance at each other from across the room is a form of affection and is worth a million words when it is shared b/w husband and wife.
What about if you are just engaged what are the limits ?
**An engagement is not a valid excuse or reason to share intimacy in the eyes of Allah…so the answer is no…no affection in pvt or public. At least that is what I can say for now. **
What about if your Nikhah was performed but no rukhsatee yet ? What are the limitations in this case ?
as Lusi said…“sky’s the limit”. Why make something that is halal haram? right?
Re: Public Display of Affection to wife/husband.
All the cute kids of Gupshup are here, having a ball. First of all, anyone who is not actually married (just fantasizing about it doesn’t count) is graciously excused from this discussion and can leave. All those who are married but are still mentally immature can leave too. Now that it leaves exactly two people and a cat here, we can now discuss this topic!
Just kiddin’
You are all welcome to participate and chime in with your “according to sharia”, “a glance is worth a million something” and “why kids are not invited to their parents wedding” nuggets here. Its so lovely to hear little kids yap about these things (pun intended).
All the cute kids of Gupshup are here, having a ball. First of all, anyone who is not actually married (just fantasizing about it doesn't count) ................
And where are your two cents on this subject ?
guyz i wasnt joking either…they were married when owing a camera was “a big” thing :D…even other day my mama was telling me that when refrigerator were first introduced people use to decorate them in their living rooms
so its pure logical concern
@ KA…fazool baatain main ker rahi hoon ya app?
And where are your two cents on this subject ?
My real two cents on this topic will get lost in the sharia based discussion here.
My politically correct two cents will just be the general blabber about depends on the situation and place and comfort level with other people present blah blah blah. Its so boring, even I can't bring myself to type it. :D
I seriously wasn't invited to my parents wedding.
when we got our step mother.:(
Re: Public Display of Affection to wife/husband.
why do u want to show any affection in the public? whts the point? are u not supposed to keep it to urself....do in ur bedroom whtever u want to do..its not a show off drama..which ur dyng to shw the public....
and men dnt deserve any affection...so why be a bheegi bili nd do all these things in public...just to impress others how close u both r? huh
why do u want to show any affection in the public? whts the point? are u not supposed to keep it to urself....do in ur bedroom whtever u want to do..its not a show off drama..which ur dyng to shw the public....
and men dnt deserve any affection...so why be a bheegi bili nd do all these things in public...just to impress others how close u both r? huh
Exactly. You go girl. If you have a man in your life. Feed him karway kareelay key bhaji tonight for dinner. Do you have some neela thotha mix it in his chai.
Re: Public Display of Affection to wife/husband.
The views presented here are seriously disturbing.