plz help me…tell me how i should tell my son to shave his cubic hair..i know this is embaracing, laikin batana tou hai na..aik maa
i'd say it's the father's job to tell the son and mother's to tell the daughter. so u should tell you husband to tell his son.
*Pyaar karna jurm hai to
Jurm hum say hogaya *
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give him a pack of razors and ask him if he has any under arm hair if he says yes, tell him he has to shave it and his pubic hair aswell for hygiene/religious reasons…
PS. best razors for using down there are Gillette II despozables and tell him to shave with the grain or he wont be able to walk stright for a week…
I went against the grain 1st time I shaved and it hurt, It’s been 3 years now but it was painfull, I got all red rash and spots, it was horrible
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but then I started using Gillette II’s they’re just perfect…
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Ay Watan hum hain teri shama key parwanon mein. - Oh, Country you are the candle around which we, your lovers, hover.
I would just tell him. This isn't a common practice in the United States, but I was the one who talked to my son about sex, and it wasn't embarrasing at all.
I just told him the basic facts, and how I felt moraly on the subject.
So just tell him he should do it, and why. I think if you are casual and at least act comfortable about it, you will be fine. He is your son, and not a stranger.
Brenda
Hope for the best, prepare for the worst!!!
well no body told me anything about pubic hair my parents didnt even mention what pubic hair were. As a child i was curious so learned to use scissors and then razor my self ... could have been dangerous if u know what i mean.. parents should talk to their kids.. i agree .. be frank
cubic hair? now that's a first. lol
I don't see what the problem is. How old is he? Just tell him, "beta, you're getting older and Islamically, you need to keep yourself clean in order to read namaz and that entails removing bodily hair from your privates."
Something along those lines should do.
uhhh... where in Islam does it say that one can't have pubic hair? Any quranic references?
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Originally posted by MARRIED NY:
plz help me...tell me how i should tell my son to shave his cubic hair..i know this is embaracing, laikin batana tou hai na..aik maa
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Dear Married NY, I would strongly recommend that you and your husband should both sit down with your son and educate him about pubic hair. I know it can be embaracing, but the trick is that, try to teach him how to pray, and then tell him the pre-requsites for praying for example wazoo, cleand clother, undergarments and pubic hair. In the middle of the conversation you can slip in your thought. I also feel compelled to suggest you that try to be open with your children( I'm sure you already are ), about everything.
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Originally posted by aahmed:
uhhh... where in Islam does it say that one can't have pubic hair? Any quranic references?
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There's plenty of hadiths telling us to remove armpit and pubic hair for personal hygiene reasons, Muslims have to follow Sunnah of the Holy Prophet (saaw) aswell as Quran...
The Prophet (s.a.w.) said: Fitrah is five: Circumcision, shaving the pubic hair, trimming the moustache, clipping the nails, and pulling the armpit hair. (Al-Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood, and An-Nasa'i).
Anas said: The Messenger of Allah (s.a.w.) told us to trim the moustache, clip the nails, pull the armpit hair, and shave the pubic hair, so that we may not leave that for longer than forty nights. (Muslim, At-Tirmizi, Abu Dawood, and An-Nasa'i).
Ay Watan hum hain teri shama key parwanon mein. - Oh, Country you are the candle around which we, your lovers, hover.
Paki Prince, I asked for Quranic references, not hadith.
boahat shukria app suub kai replys ka..mai nay asal mai baat ki thee uss say laikin he thought kai its all gay thing...lahoul wala..waisey MASHALLAH say mayra bayta namazi hai..bus asal mai is country(USA) mai rah ker yhan bachoun kai khiyalat thoray change hojatay hain.mashlaah say namazi hai rozay rakhtay hain bachay saray..hubby nay baat ki tou son nay mazaq mai baat lee.laikin mai may abb us ko yeh hadith e-mail say post ki hain..daikan kia hota hai..aik baar phir app suub ka shukria