from falling prey to addictions.
thoughts on that?
Re: protecting your husbands
sab sharaab ki botlain utha kar ghar se bahar phenk do :k:
from falling prey to addictions.
thoughts on that?
What about the wives falling pray to the addiction of Star Plus dramas. How can we make them "Qaza" one episode, so that it may help to prevent Qaza of one namaz.
p.s. Talking about the cases I came to know. Alhamdulillah, not the case with my wife.
Re: protecting your husbands
brother stp,
if you ask my opinion, t.v. should not in the house if screening pointless programming is the preoccupation of anyone.
Re: protecting your husbands
^ Agreed and well said sister, only if the spouses are convinced. I doubt in the present age it is easy to remove TV dramas from the lives of some people.
p.s. Unfortunately most addictive dramas these days don't contribute / help very much in improving anyone's character and knowledge.
My question on the lines of this thread, how would you help such people in getting rid of this addiction ?
Re: protecting your husbands
What kind of addictions, I suppose you are talking about alcohol, drugs , smoking etc. In my opinion it is very remote chance that a married man can get hooked to something like it.
But if it comes with the package then there is little a wife can do. Like there was a thread by a sister here who did not know that her husband drinks before she got married, or so many of my friends who smoke but cannot quit. They tell me that their wives and their kids have pleaded them to quit smoking and they have tried many a times but they could not quit
Re: protecting your husbands
...straight jacket.
What about the wives falling pray to the addiction of Star Plus dramas. How can we make them "Qaza" one episode, so that it may help to prevent Qaza of one namaz.
p.s. Talking about the cases I came to know. Alhamdulillah, not the case with my wife.
too bad they invented TiVo :D
are u talkin abt porn? ppl wont talk openly here, try loveshack.org...it's a really good forum with every type of relationship dilemma
Re: protecting your husbands
depends wht the addiction is to
computer,drink,cigarette,sheesha,girls,porn,or flirting with girls..... or even sometimes cheating..... or chatting with other girls romantically n not telling them hes married... i have heard cases thts y i am saying all this
protecting..haha..u make it sound as if htey r so masoom thats its ‘not their fault’ if they r/get addicted 2 soemthin..wat a joke:uz:
Re: protecting your husbands
soni27, good women and good men are innocent of anything wrong. no, i did not mean to have the argument sound as if there is no personal responsibility, but the issue is what role wife has in giving him moral support and what are the ways in which a truly bonding couple can overcome this challenge in their lives.
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addiction? and that too after marriage?.. i doubt it .. i mean why wud they avoid addicting stuff all their lives and then after marriage they suddenly start doing it?
ps.. i assume ure talkin about drugs,smoking etc..
soni27, good women and good men are innocent of anything wrong. no, i did not mean to have the argument sound as if there is no personal responsibility, but the issue is what role wife has in giving him moral support and what are the ways in which a truly bonding couple can overcome this challenge in their lives.
then paitence i guess..which is like really hard ..