how do u feel about people proposing to other people on ur behalf but without ur knowledge? and then hearing that u got accepted or rejected 
in the past few months, ive had several people proposing to guys without letting me know, and then later informing me that someone “really really likes u” or “he said no…”
quite recently someone proposed again on my behalf to her own family member. I knew the guy thru some other means, but didnt want to let her know as the situation id met him in was a really bad one (to some people) and wouldnt want to bring any shame upon him.. neways i was informed that this person proposed to him.. and he said no haha.. now im wondering wat reasons he gave… neways im quite embarrassed and shocked.. but i guess flattered too 