if a rishta comes & the guy is quite religious, nice, i mean everything is fine but his education is only intermediate ( 12th standard) as he is running his own business… what do u think the girl should do accept it or reject it?
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It depends on the guy himself.
For some people, education is necessary because it opens up their mind and teaches them things they would have otherwise never known.
For some, they learn basic life skills with life experience...so education becomes optional for them.
It just depends on the guy.
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i agree with Reha .... baaz aukaat bahot Parha Likha Educated aadmi bhi Jaailoon jaisa behaviour rakhta hai .....ye sirf education se hi nahi ghar ki tarbiyaat ka bhi taluk hota hai ........agar woh zayeda parha likha nahen magar aik acha insaan hai , usk ghar ka mahool decent hai tu i think education tu ap usko baad main complete karnay ko keh sakhti hain .........
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Education does not determine a good husband for a particular woman. Sure, a certain level of education is important not only in establishing a career but also in improving the way we think and interact with others. But I don't think it should be the determining factor. It's more important to consider how the two people relate, the lifestyles each wants to lead, etc.
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and girl is a Phd ?? . . . sabar sukar karo yaar . . . ajj kal ka daaur ma kahan miltay haan shareef munday . . . her koi zerdari bana howa ha .
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Depends more on the difference of education b/w guy and girl than education level its self.
if girl is a 12 graders, she should be able to do fine with a 12 th grader or at max Bachelors degree holder with well set business.
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Depends more on the difference of education b/w guy and girl than education level its self.
if girl is a 12 graders, she should be able to do fine with a 12 th grader or at max Bachelors degree holder with well set business.
what if the girl is having bachelors degree & guy is 12 grader .............
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and girl is a Phd ?? . . . sabar sukar karo yaar . . . ajj kal ka daaur ma kahan miltay haan shareef munday . . . her koi zerdari bana howa ha .
yupe ........ thats what i was thinking too........... :(...........shareef larke nahi milte aaj kal.........
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what if the girl is having bachelors degree & guy is 12 grader .............
Then I would say Girl should be the one deciding. Let the girl and guy meet 3-4 times and decide.
MOST of the time these kind of marriages ends up having a mental gap b/w wife and hubby. Men ko wasiey bhee kafi dair main ja ker aaqal atee hai....
PS: I am not saying that it will not work but in many cases it wont.
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personally this would not be an issue for me...im a graduate...if the guy has his own business and everything else is but is a 12 grader ...to me the advantages outweigh the disadvantages
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Depends on the money he is making from the business.
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hmm.....whenever there wil be fight...the wife will say to him......you are so jaahil and uneducated....and things will go down the spiral..
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Why are Pakistani people are so hung up on education. In the current economic climate there are graduates who are not be able to find jobs.
You say the guy is nice, religious, runs his own business (which leads me to the assumption that he is able to provide for you?) so why are you so cut up about what level he has studied at?
What exactly is it that you do yourself?
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the education thing can be ignored if all other factors are ok, but in my observation, this can be a problem in the future. The husband can have a complex about his low education as compared to his wife and the wife can also think that she is superior to the husband which might create problems in their relationship.. personally I know a few couples where the wife had more formal education and there were many problems because of that... I am not trying to scare you... just wanted to share my thoughts and observations on the matter... I personally would not be ok with it... but its really a matter of personal choice...
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Then I would say Girl should be the one deciding. Let the girl and guy meet 3-4 times and decide.
MOST of the time these kind of marriages ends up having a mental gap b/w wife and hubby. Men ko wasiey bhee kafi dair main ja ker aaqal atee hai....
PS: I am not saying that it will not work but in many cases it wont.
aur jab tak aqal aati hay, shadi ho chuki hotee hay :(
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yupe ........ thats what i was thinking too........... :(...........shareef larke nahi milte aaj kal.........
Aur kiya , achay bakray aur munday ajj kal market ma mil he nahi rahay :D
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if a rishta comes & the guy is quite religious, nice, i mean everything is fine but his education is only intermediate ( 12th standard) as he is running his own business......... what do u think the girl should do accept it or reject it?
i think its acceptable when a guy completed his master but have no job then what u will do ?
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Depends what his business is, what his prospects are and how well he is doing.. A lot of the most successful businessmen didn't go to uni, they started working at a v.young age.. Having said that tho if it bothers u it's better to deal with these issues now rather than possibly regret it later.. My other half didn't go to uni either..
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Tell me about it. Couple of my best friends never been to university and they are doing very well in their career. The main thing is if the fella is not lazy and works hard to provide for family as well as have all the awesome quality which human being should have.
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I would have refused someone less educated than me a few years ago when I was younger.
Now that I'm getting to know people and seeing what really is out there, I really want a 'shareef' guy more than anything else. I would consider this relationship but make sure his ego is OK with this scenario. Often men become insecure about this, so I would suggest that you address this issue when talking to him.