We have many topics abt proposals and rishta’s and their complications… things u need/want to consider.. next to everthing uve considered:
Have u ever thought about the fysical relation u would have and did u think that he/she might be too modest… or perhaps you? is this something you have considered…
I can imagine having certain needs and being aware of them even if ur not sexual active.. I have no clue abt how pakistani guys look at this, bac in PK.
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in Pakistan and even in desi marriages, the concept of finding out about physical/sexual compatibility is obviously next to nil. And I don't think it's a big deal at all. As a person finds somebody sexually appealing anyway if they are in love and there is mutual respect, love and frankness (which obviously develops with time)
We have many topics abt proposals and rishta's and their complications... things u need/want to consider.. next to everthing uve considered:
Have u ever thought about the fysical relation u would have and did u think that he/she might be too modest... or perhaps you? is this something you have considered...
I can imagine having certain needs and being aware of them even if ur not sexual active.. I have no clue abt how pakistani guys look at this, bac in PK.
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Are you talking about a couple's sex life?
Sexual compatibility doesn't just happen overnight...if it's an arranged marriage and/or if one/both are virgins,t hen it can be awkward...but if they find each other attractive and like each other...they eventually find their "rhythm" so to speak...
Our desi society is not that liberal to allow couples to judge their sexual compatibility before marriage. Our generation is lucky enough to be allowed to judge other types of compatibility (mental and physical). I don't think sexual compatibility should be considered for marriage. Mental compatibility is most important IMHO, then comes the physical compatibility. If mental compatibility is present, a couple will be compatible in most of the areas of their marital life including their intimate life.
what is sexual compatibility?? could someone tell me in simple terms?
Short answer:
Equal desire and passion for eating your cake and equal enjoyment while eating your cake.
Is this clear enough or you want a long answer with right jargon and anatomically correct description ?
what is sexual compatibility?? could someone tell me in simple terms?
It is a Western concept where girls and guys engage in illegitimate physical relations with innumerable persons in order to see how well can they get satisfaction with a person before deciding to marry them :D They will keep on doing this until they find THE ONE.
We have many topics abt proposals and rishta's and their complications... things u need/want to consider.. next to everthing uve considered:
Have u ever thought about the fysical relation u would have and did u think that he/she might be too modest... or perhaps you? is this something you have considered...
I can imagine having certain needs and being aware of them even if ur not sexual active.. I have no clue abt how pakistani guys look at this, bac in PK.
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There is no way of knowing before someone tests the waters.
Even if two people are 100 percent compatible in the beginning of marriage they can drift apart with time and age due to many factors.
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