while the relative maturity between the same age people could be different, the rule of thumb has always been that the more aged a person, the more mature he or she is.
I dont know how you can keep advocating the marriage of a child with an adult because supposedly that person was the prophet of God. I would not think about marrying off my children at that tender age!!! perhaps when any one of you advocates become the parents, you might as well want to marry your children off at such a young age.
I have said it before and i will say it again. Religious beliefs do make people go blind.
marriage is not all about cooking meals. if you were married you would know. it is such a great responsibility and a 9 years old is simply not capable of taking on that responsibility.
I still wont give my 9 years old daughter to a man even if he is such a perfect man.
its another thing that the perfect man is a myth. all followers of a specific man would apotheosize him. no wonder that has been done in the case of Prophet Muhammad too.
so Abu Bakar thought his daughter could become a victim of the moral looseness? from your logic, it seems like he was thinking like that.
buddy, if you think a child of that age could be into lewd acts, then God have mercy on your thinking.