Re: Producing offsprings is not enough!!
wrong observation.
Being gora doesnt make you have manners. And being desi, doesnt make you become a bad kid (or bad parent).
I see all kinds of parents (all different races) and you see similar types of parenting in all cultures. I have seen carefree “gora” parents letting their kids run amuck and have seen desi parents having very disciplined kids (go to any school, and you can see varying types of parenting and kids).
So, a huge generalisaiton on your part
secondly, if you’re not a parent yourself, you wont understand how tough parenting is. It takes everything out of you… EVERYTHING. I agree, some kids are more demanding than others.. and parents of those kids need to be more hands on… they need to not hide behind the “kids are kids” slogan and do their job… BUT.. having said that… there are days… many days, where a mother is sitting there with kids running around, and drifting off to fantasy land where she is sleeping… sleeping… dozing off… and there are no kids around… I have moments like this. Days where I am so pooped I cant even brush my teeth… days when I will just eat a bikkie for dinner.. or have left over crust pieces cus my kids wont eat them… because I am that pooped
so, unless you have a certificate in child upbringing or whatever… or are a parent… please dont give parents advice on how to raise their kids. Shukriya very much
btw, this topic has been done to death