I was talking to this elder gentle man the other day. He has some personal problem that he wants to share but can’t, cuz there are not solution(s) for his problem. He once said that if you want others to open up you have to set an example first. So I tell him all sorts of stuff hoping ke who bhi muhn khol deiN ge, as he’s so not happy.
The other day when I asked him how work was, he complained ke I never ask how ‘he’ is. Then he continued ke, my problem doesn’t have any solution, so whats the point anyway. So I challenged him, cuz I believe that every problem has 70 different solutions, you just have to pick one after analyzing pros and cons. He obviously doesn’t agree, cuz if his problem is that he wants to build a castle on the clouds, tau can I think of any solution for that? Hampf! To that I said something that I hope he didn’t register.
How can anyone believe that there can possibly be any problem that doesn’t have any solution? You can choose to ignore it or refuse to solve it, why would you want to think and convince yourself ke jee, there is no solution?