Re: problems in the family.
I think yes his two elder sisters who are much more mature would have told him to do things diffently which is why he never contacted them until right at the end when he had said the words.
The guys was idiotic and yes maybe things didnt work out and yes he used his sisters as a way of having lots of support because they were extremely possessive about him and also he said things like 'my wife says this about you and that about you'.
I dont understand why my cousins ( the boy and his 2 sisters) have stopped talking to my parents! my parents tried to help him even during the divorce but still nothing.
Its ok for him now he is getting remarried to a pretty girl 12 years is junior and moving on with his life while our family are left picking up the peices and people talking about our family...you know what desis are like!