Re: problemmmo
agreed ! why does everyone think that all women are selfish. i have parents too and they’re old and i would be devastated if my brother and sister in law moved out and got their own place because who would take care of them? i’m gonna marry a man whose parents need him and myself, and i am happy about that. it only requires courage and patience and some girls seriously lack both of them and never try to work on that, and spend their life complaining about their inlaws. that’s not the kind of wife or daughter in law i wanna become…
one thing i could never understand, is why do they raise the issue of not wanting to live with inlaws after the wedding or engagement ? ok so they want their own place, it’s their choice, but are they seriously that selfish that they will first pretend that they’re fine with everything only because they can’t wait to get married, and after this is done, they think that everyone will comply with their demands ?
if they don’t want to live with inlaws, then they should just wait for the right guy instead of creating problems in someone else’s family, or don’t get married at all. that’s our culture and i’m proud of it because our parents are not placed in nursing homes or whatever when they get old.