One thing i know for sure is that i will never allow him to disrespect my father. Our biggest fight in 2 years was over this where i almost walked out of it and eversince then he has controlled over his opinion about him but since we are currently dealing with the rishta every day and in between the discussions about how to handle the situations arising he brings it up since according to him all the trouble came from my side and he fails to understand that if my dad acted the way he did its because he is a girls father. And his father has the ego of a giant. We both love each other and leaving is not an option. He has already told me that he would never disrespect my dad. The problem is with his dad. Although after everything is resolved and the wedding is over we both can handle it. Right now i sort of have a guilty feeling that im allowing my dad to be disrescpected behind his back. Am i being selfish?