You know you are so right =) Im glad they have been respectful thus far despite the grudge and the problems so atleast its not awkward between them when they meet. Its bothering to us that they are not getting along so well but Inshallah it will turn out well in the end. Tou grudge rakhain to rakhain mujhe kya haha wish i could have that attitude but i will try to not stress over it anymore