Re: Problematic?
Honestly…worrying about these things will only make you unhappy.
Does it matter whether or not we (or you) think your dad is wrong or right? What difference does tha tmake?
If the “grudge” goes away in the future…that’s great. But in order for you and your future husband to have a happly life…you need to stay focused on YOUR relationship with him. By spending time worrying about who was right and who was wrong…or worrying about how to “fix” other people’s relationships…you’ll only cause yourself heartache.