Re: Problem
Its early still and no harm done if you decide not to continue the relationship right? Try to engage him and hash it out. Perhaps he's just shy and in the "desi mentality"...perhaps he would be able to and want to adapt to the fast pace of western life. Perhaps also, you might want to slow down and enjoy the slower pace of desi life.
Just remember, this is IMPORTANT. Talk it out with him. Make a GOOD decision. Based on being honest and open with the guy. This is the single biggest decision of you life so be careful with it and treat it with the respect and consideration it deserves.
And dont listen to jerky attitudes like one above. West is faster paced but who ever said this is better or worse? It just IS. Doesnt make you a better or a worse person for living there, it just gives you a different perspective/outlook on life.