Re: Problem with husband’s brothers wife…please HELP.
You’re kinda missing the point of my post. I don’t know why the “dikhawa.” You don’t either. And you probably never will. And at the end of the day, you can’t even say it is “dikhawa” because it isn’t for you to judge someone else’s actions. That’s for Allah SWT to do. So what’s the use of worrying yourself over it when there’s nothing you can do about it, even if you do get the answer to your “why?”
Live your life and live it well. Stop worrying about what others are doing/thinking, otherwise, you’re just going to make yourself very anxious and very bitter.