Problem with husband's brothers wife...please HELP.

[pakistani123]

Re: Problem with husband’s brothers wife…please HELP.

@mistral

You’re kinda missing the point of my post. I don’t know why the “dikhawa.” You don’t either. And you probably never will. And at the end of the day, you can’t even say it is “dikhawa” because it isn’t for you to judge someone else’s actions. That’s for Allah SWT to do. So what’s the use of worrying yourself over it when there’s nothing you can do about it, even if you do get the answer to your “why?”

Live your life and live it well. Stop worrying about what others are doing/thinking, otherwise, you’re just going to make yourself very anxious and very bitter.

i dont want to worry about it. but the problem is that her husband my mother-in-laws favourite…therefore so is his wife. even if they do wrong things nobody says anything to them. maybe because he has already been divorced twice and been with numerous other women without marriage…therefore my motherinlaw maybe doesnt want him.to get divorced.again thats why she never says anything to his wife.

the problem is when my motherinlaw comes back from pakistan she will blame me and my husbands sister for not staying in contact with my jethani or even visiting her even though shw doesnt even want us to come becuase she doesnt invite us. i just dont want my moterinlaw to blame us for what my jethani is doing. i think she gets away with everything because thwy live with her and dont.want to upset her…but when shea wrong dont u think they should tell.her?