Problem of South Asian Countries

HI ,

The Husbands, especially EGO oriented ones, feel it insult Keh woh apnein babies ko uthaein, especially when they are in family gatherings. Woh samajhtay hain keh is se log unhian mazaaq karein gay [jo keh kartay bhi hain] aur unhain Zan-Mureed bolein gay aur kahein gay keh tumhari wife controls you. I have personally seen this kind of attitude. This is simply terrible. While doing so, they even forget that the wife might not be feeling well and expecting a helping hand but They ignore such things as well. Then at the same time they claim they Love their wife. What is it called ? What kind of love they meen by this ?

Cheers

yeah i have seen that as well, sometimes guys take care of the babies in home but in gatherings they dont because the are breaking an invisible law or sumthing.