Re: Problem need a solution 
When you truly accept and understand the above statement, you’ll be happy and realize that the “problem” is all in your mind.
My SO and I are the exactly the same you described. He’s practical and I’m sensitive/emotional. We used to have the same type of arguments you mentioned. I’m finally realizing that my SO has his own way of showing his love. It’s not that he doesn’t pay attention to me…it’s that he doesn’t pay attention the WAY I want him to. But that’s just his personality. It doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love me.
You need to work on your own self-confidence, and realize that there’s nothing “forcing” your husband to stay with you. If your husband wanted to leave you, he would. If he didn’t love you, he wouldn’t take the time off from work and go to Europe with you. Instead of focusing on what your husband is NOT doing…you need to focus on what he IS doing.
And in all seriousness…you should seriously consider therapy if this is interfering with your daily life. If you’re anxious to the point where it’s affecting your daily life and affecting your health, you may have some type of anxiety disorder.