I have this one friend of mine who is married and has a child and is expecting.
Her husband is not happy with her she dosent cook food, irons his clothes, cleans the house or take care of the baby as she should. She doesnt gets dressed for her husband.
Her family was not happy with her as well she used to not listen to them, now she tells me is she wants to go to her moms home and stay there she feels happy over there.
She had an incident in her life due to which i think she became depressed etc. then she started lying alot she even lied to her husband.
So yesterday her husband was being upset to her that she dosent do anything for him as a wife should. All she can do to hide her mistakes is lie and say she is sick.
She called me up and was upset and depressed due to what her husband said her.
is she depressed and sick thats why she is being like this or she is just being iresponsible.
My concern is how should i make her life better?
How should i help her get things better?
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Tell her to become responsible. How old is use? Maybe she is acting this way because she is expecting? Was she always like this? Did he know that before the wedding? We all feel great at our parent's house but we can't just a void our responsibilities.
maybe she is depressed.. get her some psychiatric help.
problem, irresponsible or sick
She is 22 she is been always like this. I have tried to make her agree to go to psychiatric but she disagree.
problem, irresponsible or sick
Any advise suggestions would be appreciated.
Re: problem, irresponsible or sick
Im almost sure she has clinical depression, you should convince her to see a psychiatrist.
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I would try and get her some help for the depression. I know that my pregnancy made me feel ridiculously tired. I'm usually very active, but I just wasn't able to keep up with things as before. Perhaps, he can iron his own clothes and help her out a bit. Pregnancy isn't the same for everything, mine caused havoc on my feet and back.