Re: Problem between Fiancé & SIL.
It's something that needs to be handled between parents and child. Let them figure out what they need to do.
I have a younger sister, and when she does something differently than me, I don't go make a stink about it. It's her life. She'll reap what she sows.
Re: Problem between Fiancé & SIL.
Try your best to stay out of it.
Calm him down so he can handle the situation well but let HIM handle it.
aik samajdaar aadmi aapni behan kay baray main aysii information kabhi outsider say share nahi kerta... he send you the pics and then told u to say out of it or not to worry whatever....they y did he do it to begin with? he is giving a bad reputation to his sister....
like someone mentioned, stay out of it as much as u can
Re: Problem between Fiancé & SIL.
well if he does go thru with his actions, i would'nt be surprised if his ego lands him in court.
Re: Problem between Fiancé & SIL.
^ I am his FIANCE! he is going to be my HUSBAND. we share everything with each other. Its not like he sent those to some random ppl. He sent them to his wife. Him being a man maybe didnt know how to deal with something like this thats y he figured I might be able to help.. there's nothing wrong with sharing something like this with ur wife.
I did stay out of it. I wasnt going to get involved to begin with. Just tried to calm him down. Anyways, last night he went over to his khala's and had a chance to speak to her. She admitted it was her mistake and apologized. He told her he is very disappointed and made her promise she will never do anything like that again... so things r back to normal. He promised her he wont tell the parents when they get back from pak...for their sake..cuz he knows how much it will hurt them to see those pics and she was really embarrassed..she even started crying and apologizing. He called me later and was actually very happy that she did not talk back to him and admitted her mistake.
As for wat u said Orphues.. He is not an animal. He is a very open minded guy. born n raised in Canada. Been through schools here and knows EXACTLY wat happens. I am actually very proud as to how he handled this situation. He did not yell at her.. he told her that watever she chooses to do is none of his business but as a big brother, he is very disappointed that she chose to do this. She started blaming her friends for it saying how they all told her to do it. He told her getting influenced is not an excuse. Which is true cuz ALL his friends (even muslim/pakistani ones) drink and smoke..and have been doing it since high school and he has not once touched alcohol or smoked... if it was abt getting influenced, he would have been doing that too. She agreed with him and admitted her mistake and things r back to normal now.. I know she learnt her lesson and iA in future she will make wiser choices.
Re: Problem between Fiancé & SIL.
i wasn't referring to the pix and yes i do know he is your fiance. I was referring to his so called action he said he will take. Cruelty to children no longer gets brushed under the carpet.
Re: Problem between Fiancé & SIL.
Yes, I know wat u mean.. but I know him better.. he wouldnt even hurt his enemy. He was just angry at the time thats all.. honestly, he is all talks no actions :P. He is a very loving, caring and sensitive guy :D